Need opinions ...yetagain:(

Hello everyone,mylife has been one hell of a trainwreck recently ...Now the most problem Im having trouble is a big one, please bear with me if you're a stoner you probably dont want to read about a paragraph but please do bear with me.

Alright so I started a thread about this girl on here earlier. Now my problem is that everyone told me to forget her, I cannot forget her for she is nearly always around me or talking to me. Now its extremely hard to drop your feelings for a girl that you've pretty much fallen for and last night ..... Last night we were at a bush party out at a lake and one of my buddys started getting close to her, I pulled him aside n was like what the fuck man, stay away from my shit and hes all like ok ok ok. Sure enough I left like an hour later and I get a phone call from one of my other buddys saying, you dont have any idea of whats going on,turns out my buddy ended up making out with her but I think that was it. My buddy is not longer my buddy, he was a realllly good friend of mine its a shame he had to do this youknow, he was my partner in crime and my rowdy brother. Before this bitch showed up we were real tight, we wouldnt fight unless its the both of us there for it to go down just cuz we're like that. Anyway I really dont wanna fall for this girl again PLEASE o PLEASE what the fuck can I do to make my self better because I have seriously fell in a hole I cant get out.

EDIT :: what would be the most mature thing to do ... I dont want to be stupid but I also do not want to see either of them again.:(

You're probably having alot of different shit go through your head, it should get better with time but you have to remember man he was your buddy. Bros come before hoes. Everybody makes mistakes, I know I would never lose a friend just because he hooked up with a girl I liked. Women come and go, and if she really cared about you then she wouldn't have done it. Forgive and forget, pack a fat-ass bowl and have a peace pipe session with your friend. :rasta:

It's a girl man. I would never let a long friendship come between a friend and me. There are other fish in the sea, and the way I see it, is this girl isn't really too interested in having a intimate relationship with you, so why let yourself live in heartbreak for this girl.

Just stop talking to her all together. Get her out of your system completly. If she's around school or whatever, ignore her, if you're at a party, ignore her. She is playing mind games with you and is being a little tease. I wouldn't waste 2 more seconds on this ditzy bitch.

Go be buddies with your rowdy brother again. There are millions of girls in this world, but there can only be one true friend. Go after someone that will treat you right, not get sloppy drunk and lick the first mouth she sees.

I know what you're saying, but Ive been talking to my buddy and like he knows Im out to get it and I really do like her,and last night I even told him NOT to do shit and he was like i know man what the fuck I wouldnt.

I just ... need to smoke another bowl and think about this, Im in such a knot I dont know what in the fuck to do.

Dont get me wrong, what you're saying is making perfect sense but in my mind Im thinking differently, I guess its my emotions fucking with me, but man he was my hommie who knew I really liked her and she liked me before this. This is the one thing thats getting to me,and its not even my biggest problem, I almost put my head threw my window last night I was so pissed, my othedr buddy kyle had to tell me not to do it.

Been there got the T-shirt my friend, but it ain't worth losing your mate over bro! As the saying goes There's plenty more fish in the sea. Dont let a woman come between you and your mate. Yeah he did wrong and probably lost alot of trust when he kissed her, but hey put yourself in his shoes. You woulda done exactly the same, I'd put money on it! Us guys follow our dicks man, don't hold it against him, it's not like your gonna stay mad at your mates dick, coz that would just be weird right?

Peace

Buddy

Then get rid of your friend. That is a pretty shitty thing to do to you. Why keep the people who don't care around? The girl doesn't care, your buddy doesn't care, I say cut them both off. Wait for them to come and apologize to you if they really care, and if they don't, you know who your true friends are. Ignore the, don't talk to them, and if they ask what's wrong, tell them to fuck off, Simple.

Friends come and friends go and yes, it suckcs when you find out you can't trust them, but that's how you weed out the good from the bad.

Good luck.

I know we follow our dicks,but straight up if my buddy told me to stay away from a girl wich has happend with this vicky chick we know who he liked. I coulda totally got with her but I kept away like he told me too,like a true friend would, wouldnt you say?

Wow, lol lucky for me nothing has happened like that to me while I was in the "fell for her" mode or I'd probably kill the guy. But just forget her, trust me the more you accept you wont be with her or the more you believe you dont want her the better you'll feel and those feelings will completely vanish eventually. Just dont look at her any more :p.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

Then get rid of your friend. That is a pretty shitty thing to do to you. Why keep the people who don't care around? The girl doesn't care, your buddy doesn't care, I say cut them both off. Wait for them to come and apologize to you if they really care, and if they don't, you know who your true friends are. Ignore the, don't talk to them, and if they ask what's wrong, tell them to fuck off, Simple.

Friends come and friends go and yes, it suckcs when you find out you can't trust them, but that's how you weed out the good from the bad.

Good luck.

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I think I might just cut them off, Im moving on the weekend to a much better place across town Im really hoping for a change. The one bad thing about moving, Is Im only 2 streets away from this girl:(

"girls will fuck your whole shit up"
quote from dmx in belly

no matter who are you are or where you live
its always the same ol situation

first thing you got to do
is fuck a friend of that chick
thats hotter
find out what girl she hates and be with her

it looks bad if you get all jealous over that
its hard not to but you must control your emotions
your homeboy is just doing his thing
if that girl didnt want tongues in her mouth
and hands and her breasts and coochie
then she would have said no

learn to master this situation cuz teh older you get
the worse the game becomes
or just find an ugly fat girl who loves giving head
and live happily ever after

nothing lasts forever
get yours while you can