first time

So my girlfriend, 17 and I, 16, just had sex for the first time recently, but it wasn't too great. She hurt quite a bit when I went in a little too far, but it's always supposed to hurt for the girl the first time, I hear, so she let me so that we could get it over with. About a week later we tried again, and it hurt just as bad for her. How long after the first time does it take before it doesn't hurt for the girl? I hate hurting her but we both want to have sex so we don't really know how long to wait or what to do. Is there any way of knowing how long?

3-4 times. For me, at least.

3-4 times is normal. try foreplay, a bit of light mastarbation should make it easier for her, and don't forget be gentle.

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Originally Posted by amsterdammed

3-4 times is normal. try foreplay, a bit of light mastarbation should make it easier for her, and don't forget be gentle.

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you just got to break her in man, just like you would a new baseball mitt?

The wetter, the better. Try getting some lube and it should go a bit..smoother..from there.

yeah use some lube. it might still hurt a little but it will be better