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I dont like being a virgin. :(
But thats not my main concern. I just want to meet some girls and have fun, but im a very shy and calm person. It seams like its hard for me to open up and talk because I think I take things slower and am less energetic than most girls I know. How should I meet more peopel like myself?
I just want to meet some nice shy easy going people.
go to the library ill bet theres some ugos you can practice on in there
lol jk...just talk to people, find common ground and make conversation
thats what i do to talk to total strangers, usually works
well if ur wanting to lose ur viriginity finding some one shy is not the way to go...
i dont no u so if u already do what i say then just dont listen to me :p
i think u just need to be confident... i am shy to girls aswell and even a bit nervous.... but if ur confident and outgoing then it helps... just dont be scared... o wen i say out going i mean dont like limit what u say.... say wat seems rite... read the situation... ie her tones, body language, facial expresion... these all help to tell u how she is thinking and can help u to no where to take the convo and wat to say
i dunno if that helps at all but i hope so
yeah thanks for the help so far. Im not in a rush to get laid, just meet girls like myself.
I know where you're coming from, man; I was once the same way. It takes time for a 'shy' person to come out of their shell. For me, it didn't happen until 'after' I first got laid, but casual encounters gradually led up to more and more confidence. Like, I was extemely nervous around girls when younger. (Early highschool) but some of the girls kinda dug that, and everything built up from there...holding hands, to kissing, to boobs, to muff, to sex.
All you need to do is be yourself, man. Alot of girls won't be into you, but 'some' will. Just take it easy, and allow it to happen naturally, :cool:
What I'm trying to say is: "Don't rush it". it 'will' happen for you. All you have to do is be who you are, and let it. (The girls will find you) ;)
Peace,
Well I my first time was at a party when I was drunk and high beyond belief and so was everyone else so by the end of the night everyone was going off and fucking so I was just like shit im drunk if I get rejected or something they wont remember and niether would I so I just went up to a group of chicks and started mackin. I figured the more chicks that I could talk to and put the charm on the easier it would be to succeed and I was right some of the girls went and danced and There was like 2 chicks left and we were just chillin and talking and we had NOTHING in common I actually was about say fuck it I cant stand anymore when one of them went to the bathroom and then the 1 that was left started flirtying and shit and about 20 Min. later we went out and did it in her car. This was a huge accomplishment for me not only because I lost my virginity but I was also 13 and she was 17 (I was into some bad shit with mainly older kids) so I went to parties with them.
meet girls like myself...Quote:
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Obviously this is a girl and you guys are giving her advice about how to get a GIRLfriend :p
im pretty sure its a guy that wants to meet girls like himQuote:
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C'mon guys im in a never ending funk sense birth, you know what thats like?
help a stoner out!
yes i doQuote:
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