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Why do guys still look at porn when they have a girlfriend? I was just looking at my browser history on MY laptop and I found about 30 porn sites, which my possibly-soon-to-be-ex-boyfriend told me he viewed while i was at work, or asleep, or upstairs. Is this normal or what? I'm freaking out, someone please tell me what to do.:confused:
I truly believe it's just a completely normal guy thing. Doesn't take away from his feelings about you. They have a lot more sexual urges and impulses than we typically do, and for many many guys, porn is a routine part of their solo sexual time.
Most men are visual, highly sexual creatures. I wouldn't worry about it or feel threatened by it unless you notice that he's spending an obsessively heavy amount of time surfing porn sites and no time at all interacting sexually with you. If he's still hot for you and your intimate relationship is good, just think of the porn as a harmless masturbatory hobby.
Exactly. Imagine every single time you had a romantic thought. Now imagine having those anywhere between ten and three thousand times a day. So he looks at porn. That's the least of your worries. I hate to say this, but if you're considering breaking up with your boyfriend over this, you guys are already through.Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Yes, it's normal as long as it's not some sick stuff or he's not JUST watching porn and not meeting your sexual needs. I watch porn all the time with or without my boyfriend. Why don't you watch it with him?
maybe shes not into chicksQuote:
Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry
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Originally Posted by Captain Hanks
dont have to be imo its abt the sex
I am a guy and i watch porn because it's just something sexual i do when i'm not with my gf and i am horny. I don't think less of my gf just because i watch porn. She knows and she doesn't care for porn so we never watch it together. It's harmless. If you do break up with him because of this then that is a bad decision. All guys watch porn.. fact of life. (for most guys atleast.)
Yeah... you're probably all right. I'm just too jealous. It just seemed like the last straw as our relationship has been in trouble for awhile, were actually on a break now and I found the porn today so I think I over-reacted. Thanks for the advice :smokin:
Watch it with the man. It'll titillate and perhaps goes a way to resolving things ;)
wouldnt you prefer him watching porn than going out and meeting up and doing stuff with girls? think so :)