Just had the mother talk...

Didnt go well at all!

It started by her coming in to my room while I was asleep and telling me that she's not giving me money to go across the country for training because I smoke dope so there's no point in training.

I got picked in the top 35 players in my quarter of the country to play rugby for that province, all while toking! It just shows how safe it is.

But yeah, I told her I quit while I trained and got onto that team, so she thinks now because I tried to tell her how safe it is Im just gonna get kicked off it because Im back smoking.

When I was 15 I smoked all the time and got very aggressive and paranoid, but that was mainly down to what was going on with me at the time with a few things. I did use cannabis as an escape.

But anyway, she didnt listen to a word I said and then got angry enough to tell my grandfather. He's an old man who never drank, smoked or even drink coffee. He's 80 and he's still a beast of a man! But he's religious and started actually listening to me.
Bless him, he doesnt know the difference between cannabis and heroin so he actually listened to me, he's a good man.

But yeah, my mother's gone on a mental one, and she's stormed off saying that I can either stop taking cannabis or 'do a thomas on it'. Thomas is my brother who left because of her bullshit! It wasnt cannabis related, she just doesnt know how to parent problems. She just shouts.

Argh, but my grandfather told me to live my life, Im old enough and man enough to make my own choices, just dont go down the drugs road. My mother's main arguement was that he would go crazy if he found out and we'd be kicked out of this house. But that's not true now, Im relieved he knows now actually.

ur grandad seems pretty down to earth with it, thts kl, but ur mum, its not tht different, most peoples parents are like that, if my mum knew i know she'd freak and take me out of the private school i go to and put me in rehab, sounds over the top but she would do that

Yeah, I had a granddad just like that. Also my mom is just like that.. yells, yells, yells, but never listens. Well, good lucking on your rugby thing. If you're old enough you could just say screw this, and go to the rugby thing without her permission (i don't know if thats possible, just guessing)

Ive been through that same crap so many times. Mom wakes me up to start drama and shit.