Need some peoples point of views here.

OK now i guess this should be here but im not sure but i figured here because its about a relationship.

Ok so heres my story i need some feedback from, i need you to give me a point of view like as you are a family member of mine like say Parents,cousin, aunt ect.

Ok so im in a tough spot here its over a girl im talking to and the situation is that she previously dated my older brother and he also treated her like shit and i would talk to her and make her feel better and we started a bond right away. They dated for about 1year maybe slightly more and have since been apart for maybe 1 1/2 years. We recently started talking alot and chillin together and we see alot of potential for a good relationship but we are deff taking it slow because of this fucked up situation and the thing is her and my bro arnt on good terms anyway so i cant have her come to my house at all right now and none of my family really knows about us except my mom she kind of has and idea somthings up. But my question is if we ended up dating and making something of this would it be really fucked up from a family member stand point or even maybe a moral stand point?

Its just she tells me im always on her thoughts and she is deffinatly always running trough my head and i want this to go somewhere but i just feel so mixed up right now. Me and my bro dont really talk right now anyway weve drifted far apart so i could really care less what he thinks but its like my parents and other close family members that im worried about telling and maybe losing thier respect or something. I could just be blowing this out of proportion but i need some feedback guys please! I just want to try and get this in the open with my familyso it doesnt fell like im sneeking around and feeling like hanging out with her is wrong when it feels so right. I just dont want to make too much drama whith this.

Nothing should come between love and attraction. If your brother doesn't like it, then that's too bad. Wait a little bit to tell your family, if they're really all for your happiness, then they'll be glad.

Go for it.

all's fair in LOVE & WAR!

people will talk shit no matter what you do
you can have em talk shit with you having that girl by your side
or you can have them talk shit while you stand alone

if you like her and she you then fuck everyone and handle it

your brother will get over it
you might have to fight though

Tell your bro that you like her and want to go for her... if he says shit tell him he had his chance and he fucked it.

thanks for all the feedback guys now i dont feel so bad about it. I think im gunna wait for the right time and just lay it all out. And like you guys said if my parents really care about my happiness they should beable to deal.

Fuck her hard. your bro will get over it.