Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex
I thought you said yesterday that you were giving these girls pleasure and then it wasnt being reciprocated?
Ahh you werent doing your share after all.
Alright lets start from scratch.
Remember most of the pleasure nerves are on the outside not the inside except for the g-spot and epicenter. Clitoris, g-spot and epicenter all tie together.
If you can build sexual tension over a period of time, give her oral sex correctly and let her fuck-you using the 3 point method of clitoris, g-spot and epicenter, she will most likely come.
Then she will most likely reciprocate like you want. Just keep in mind sometimes an orgasm is there and sometimes it isnt. It might be there one day and not the next. There are many factors behind this. If she cant have one no matter what, then dont let the ego take it personally or talk it to death.
Lighting candles, romantic dinners, bubble baths and backrubs. That is soft sexual tension. The love making type. Some women like this from time to time but not all time. Some get bored with this because this is the common approach used by most guys.
All women crave a little drama in their lives.
You want the kind where shes a nympho thats dying to get out. So dont be afraid to mess with her emotions.
Women crave sex on many emotional levels unlike men who are linear in their sexual thought process.
Tension is built and not cashed-in early. This is where quality vs. quantity is important for women. Tension is released to the one who creates it.
Sometimes there is nothing you need to do and it is driven by other factors such as her natural drive to have sex.
Foreplay aside.
Oral sex basics.
1. Spell the alphabet with your tongue. Words too.
2. Use two fingers and the come hither motions on the g-spot while at the same time licking and sucking.
3. Consecutive long licks then curl the tongue length-wise, wrap around the doobie and put all of your mouth on it and move it around and let her know you dig it by going mmmmmm!
search the web for a micro vibrator that straps on to your tongue, they work great. Use that by itself or with come hither movements.
Try "tongue vibrator" on the web
5. Mix up the movements and tease her.
3-point method of intercourse.
You need to have a 1 o'clock erection angle to pull this off. You also need a length that is equivelent to the base of the palm to the tip of the middle finger to reach all three points. If not, its a percentage factor from there whether she will reach orgasm using this method.
The 1 o'clock angle is important to put significant pressure on these 3 areas simultaneously. There are tricks to increasing cardiovascular pressure to make this happen.
You know where the clitoris is located, the g-spot is about an inch and a half to two inches in and on the top. Somewhat of a rough mass. The epicenter is adjacent to the cervix toward the front side in other words you want to be off center toward the front, (a little hard to explain).
You lay back at a 45 degree angle on a sofa for example. Just as if sitting stretched out.
She gets on top and performs the disapearing KAK trick. lol
Penis head stays on the epicenter at all times.
SHE NEEDS TO CONTROL ALL THE MOVEMENT. For her it is more of a rocking back and fourth with the hips as opposed to up and down. So just let her have her wild ride.
Then you can move on to different positions. But this way you are putting her first which is a good idea because her sexual response is slower than yours.
Have a good one.