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Some would consider me anti social. others would say, i think before i speak, however... if theres a conversation about anything other than psychoactives, excercise or motocross i cant seem to hold a very good conversation
maybe its just me? or maybe i just dont do small talk.
I talk a lot to the people I hang out with, when I do end up hanging out with them. The only problem is, it takes a lot of effort for me to pick up the phone or call anyone anymore. I have become a little bit of a recluse all over again ever since my trouble with the law and my rent kicking me out.
So, I'd say I am, everyone else seems to think so....
It's like me and sports. I'm not much into sports and couldn't tell you who won what, when, etc. Doesn't make me anti-social...just if you're talking sports, I have less to say.
hb,Quote:
Originally Posted by hubblebubble
we have had plenty of "small talk"
don't label yourself
you are you.
i find you to be an interesting being.
anti-social? no.
if you have nothing to say,
you say nothing.
ehh, I actually think I can get into either mindset depending on my mood. Sometimes I feel like being chatty and talking with people, other times I value my own time and privacy.
Most of the time, however, I don't really care for small talk, because it's just that: small. If I'm around my closer friends, even then I'm not some rambling chatterbox. Like Mary said, I contribute when I have something to contribute. A lot of ignorant people spew off at the mouth without thinking, and that bugs me :D
id say im pretty anti social...
i like my privacy...
im usualy the quiet 1...
just bout like u hb...
peace
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Originally Posted by hubblebubble
I feel you on that one. Everyone seems to attribute some meaning to small talk when im my reality, its just BS. Of course small talk can lead somewhere else but with alot of people, it doesnt. I wouldnt say your anti-social because of this, id just say that your more of a REAL person....
I can't sustain a conversation with anyone unless it's interests me. I'm extremely shy and very anti-social. If it weren't for my friends calling me and wanting to hang out with me, I would be alone :P
It's weird, I could make an ass of myself in public and have no shame, but I'm afraid to talk to people.
will you be my companion?
i personally cannot stand small talk. its kind of a waste of time to me. it doesnt mean anything to me, so why bother.
but that usually makes me the quiet one who doesnt speak much because cant be bothered unless it matters