Scared Shitless: I Might be a Father!

So I got really stoned with this girl at a music festival on Saturday night. Im 16 and she's 15- yikes- and we went off into the woods. I was so stoned that I lost all judgement and ended up having sex with her, well, sort of. This might be too graphic for some people, but anyways, I never could quite get hard enough to completely penetrate her (perhaps because I was stoned) and i ended up having sex with the tip of my penis for a like 5 minutes... UNPROTECTED. I never ejaculated however, but I have been incredibly scared since it happened. She also wasn't on any kind of birth control. Is my life ruined?

bro chill...........

have you talked to her?

then why are you freaking out.

if you want to know have her get a day after pill or go get a test at the proper time.

it will not help if you sit there and worry........

use it as a learning experince, and dont do it again,,, use protection.

dont blame it on the weed either.........

I'm definitely not blaming the weed entirely- obviously it was a lousy decision I made. But will the morning after pill really work now? It's already been a day and a half since it happened?

And how could I possibly not worry- this could potentially ruin my entire future. I'd be a fucking dad at age 17. And having to explain everything to everyone- I'd almost rather just run away from it all like a big fucking pussy.

dude. umm. go talk to the pharmacy people. im serious. walk into rite aid and go to the back with the pharmacy people and explain your situation.

As long as you can contact this girl your ok. Have her go get a morning after pill and go with her to ensure that not only she goes but to comfort her. It can be scary ( Ive been in this situation). It works best within 24 hours but is still effective and can be taken after 72 hours, so get it on a.s.a.p!! I had to go to a local clinic first and be checked out by the doctor and then they will perscribe the pill.

The pharmacy cant do anything you must have a perscription from a doctor first.

Ok, so tommorow I will go to a pharmacy at lunch and try to have them help me. As long as my parents don't find out this seems like a good idea.

man I feel for ya, lol, especially at a festival. Most of the time at festivals I am far from sober, and it was just a spur-of-the-moment-feels-right type a thing, and now that it's over, you wake up and realize what you did. Had plenty of those. Good luck and try and get in contact with this lady friend of yours.

So what do you think the chances are that she is pregnant?

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

I never ejaculated

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last time I checked the opposite of that needs to happen in order to make babies.

I would be more worried about STD's at this point. Still, no harm in playing it safe.