My friend's ex

I fallen for my friend's ex. Yesterday, I felt so drawn to her, and she so drawn to me. At first, I resisted, resisted all I could. We ended up holding hands, and we were about to kiss and I told her no, I couldn't do that to a friend. Mind you, this was a bitchy thing for her to do, considering her ex boyfriend was practicing with the band in the room and my friends were all watching this in what seemed like disgust. I thought it would be the end of it. I maintained my moral conduct of standards. This infatuation continues. This girl is driving me crazy. I don't know what about her that is making me feel like this. She isn't the smartest, or the most attractive. Her aura, her presence, like a fire being lit inside of me. Soft and sweet......just thinking about her, I urn for her presence. A soul conflicted......my morals is all I have, but what if morals keep me from something good....I can't do this to a friend, a true one at that. Inject your wisdom to a tortured soul.

She may be trying to play ya into a game. It's real common, for both sexes, to try to date the others friends for a bit of revenge. How good a friend is your friend to ya?
If you really want to give it a go, biker code says you ask permission from the brother.

Have a good one!:thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

She may be trying to play ya into a game. It's real common, for both sexes, to try to date the others friends for a bit of revenge. How good a friend is your friend to ya?
If you really want to give it a go, biker code says you ask permission from the brother.

Have a good one!:thumbsup:

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You are wise beyond words. Thanks again!

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

I fallen for my friend's ex. Yesterday, I felt so drawn to her, and she so drawn to me. At first, I resisted, resisted all I could. We ended up holding hands, and we were about to kiss and I told her no, I couldn't do that to a friend. Mind you, this was a bitchy thing for her to do, considering her ex boyfriend was practicing with the band in the room and my friends were all watching this in what seemed like disgust. I thought it would be the end of it. I maintained my moral conduct of standards. This infatuation continues. This girl is driving me crazy. I don't know what about her that is making me feel like this. She isn't the smartest, or the most attractive. Her aura, her presence, like a fire being lit inside of me. Soft and sweet......just thinking about her, I urn for her presence. A soul conflicted......my morals is all I have, but what if morals keep me from something good....I can't do this to a friend, a true one at that. Inject your wisdom to a tortured soul.

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She's playing you.

She plays this so that she makes sure others see it. She then knows the other friends will go tell the x, or the x will see it himself.

She is most likely using you and thats not right to use you to get even with the x when she in reality she might not feel anything toward you.

She could be:

Challenging him because the relationship isnt really over and using you to make him jealous because your his friend.

or

Trying to get even by being sexual with his friend, (you).

Ive had this happen before. Ive seen this happen to other guys. She goes for his friend. Now why is that? Think about it.

"I urn for her presence", "driving me crazy" "infatuated".

KEEP YOUR FEET ON THE GROUND. Right now you are all over the road with the emotions.

That will get you hurt especially if she has psuedo feelings for you.

You dont want to get hurt by her and end up without your best friend at the same time.

I say if you pursue the girl you will lose both the girl and your friend.

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

I fallen for my friend's ex. Yesterday, I felt so drawn to her, and she so drawn to me. At first, I resisted, resisted all I could. We ended up holding hands, and we were about to kiss and I told her no, I couldn't do that to a friend. Mind you, this was a bitchy thing for her to do, considering her ex boyfriend was practicing with the band in the room and my friends were all watching this in what seemed like disgust. I thought it would be the end of it. I maintained my moral conduct of standards. This infatuation continues. This girl is driving me crazy. I don't know what about her that is making me feel like this. She isn't the smartest, or the most attractive. Her aura, her presence, like a fire being lit inside of me. Soft and sweet......just thinking about her, I urn for her presence. A soul conflicted......my morals is all I have, but what if morals keep me from something good....I can't do this to a friend, a true one at that. Inject your wisdom to a tortured soul.

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the poetry of your words reflects the anguish of your soul.

Without knowing the specifics of the breakup, which couldn't have been too bad if they're still in the same room together, why is there a problem? People fall in and out of love, especially when they're young, and it sounds like you're both avalible and open to spending time together... Yeah, the code may require you to ask your friend, but the code also requires him to assent. Don't go behind anyones back over anything and you should be in the moral clear.

Maybe she's playing, but that's just a risk you run I suppose.

Do what feels right.

Do adults still play these kind of mind games?

I dont think people are aware of the consequences and if they do they dont seem to care.I would talk to your mate about it and I would also talk to her too but obviously not together.

you both are just horny
never pass up a chance to hit
have sex with her and then
get over it

Thanks ganja for bringing me back to earth.

I don't even know why I was feeling like this yesterday, and all the emotions gone today. No woman is worth a rift between a friend. It would affect the entire band, and group of people I hang out with. Not worth it. She would make a pretty good friend instead.

Apparently adults do still play mind games.

LOL...tell me her name isn't Yoko!

You know the score, play it smart.

Have a good one!:thumbsup:

the newest beer commercial I've seen says you have to wait 6 months b4 doing anything with a friends x, and thats only if she's exeptionally hot.