Is it too late? (pics)

This is my first year at it, and I feel I have done a good job so far. But you guys are the pro's at it. So here it goes.

These are 2 seperate plants. They are planted 2 feet from one another, outside, in MiracleGrow gardening soil. I have bad eyes and can not determine the sexes by sight, and my digital camera is not quality enough to zoom in and see if it shows some of the same signs as other posts here. Also these plants have been in the ground for only 3 months. I know I started late in the year, but these are the circumstances I had to deal with. The seeds came from some really good hydro I got this year. The strain or name of it, I do not know. I referred to it as "really good shit" They are 2 plants from 3 seeds. The other plant died quickly after the 3rd set of leaves.

Is it too late to pull the male, And exactly wich one is the male? Should I leave it for pollenation. Im very torn here, and hate to see such a good smokes seed go to waste. Let me know any info you can on them please. I fear Im running out of time, or quite possible Im already too late.

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first one male second one female and some of those sacs look like they have already opened. be careful when removing it if it's close to the female, so as to not shake unneccessary amounts of pollen from the sacs. you will get some seed, it only takes one of those bad boys to put out a whole lot of air borne spours. BTW are you in arizona? cableone.net?

Thanks for info farmer. I totaly apreciate your quick response.
I feel really bad now. Ignorant as it may sound I squeezed one of those sacks yesterday, and the I handled the female moments after. I could Kick myself.
And Im in Texas, Cableone is my local cables isp. Quite possible they are branching out to other states.

if it's a quality strain, i wouldn't worry too much about it. just collect the seeds and save them for another try...good luck to you. and yeah, cableone is here in arizona, where i am from.