Fun sex?

Ok heres how it goes.....

I been in a long relasionship with my gf 8 yrs to date.

Our sex is still very active, but she said to me the other day, we need to have FUN sex! She thinks im too serious?? i dunno! So like theres times where i cant keep it up cos of thos evil damn condoms! and wen this happend i get all frustrated and pissed as im all embarressed, but shes like we should just laugh n stuff?? what the im thinking lol

So fun sex eh? bring in toys? well we have loads of thos as she hold ann summer parties quite abit. I think i take sex to seriusly?? Not sure what she wants? ive asked her.....didnt get much out of her!

So any suggestions would be cool! I try and get her to do diff posisions and stuff, but she says im no porn star. im confused!

Help! lol

Peace

damn man sounds rough
i think the main thing is to make it last as long as possible
take your time and just enjoy the moment
if worse comes to worse and your dick dont co-operate
then go to the doctor and get 50 mg of viagra.
that shit will make your dick as solid as a rock

wow hey dog u aint been on here in ages man - welcum back

hehe thx rob, yeah its been a while dude! Hope all is well!

yea m8 things are good hope is all gd 4 u bruvs ;)

I think she is being a bit harsh on you and why can't she suggest a few ideas instead of letting you do all the work.Sorry if I seem a bit harsh but that is how it comes across.

The summer is coming so the weather should be nice for outdoor adventures that can be fun if you are careful.

LoL, bondage. No Im jp, but hey maybe she wants to have a three some, lucky you, as long as he third is a chick.

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Originally Posted by dog420

Ok heres how it goes.....

I been in a long relasionship with my gf 8 yrs to date.

Our sex is still very active, but she said to me the other day, we need to have FUN sex! She thinks im too serious?? :confused: ( How about a red nose and spinning bowtie ???)
So fun sex eh? bring in toys? well we have loads of thos as she hold ann summer parties quite abit. I think i take sex to seriusly?? Not sure what she wants? ive asked her.....didnt get much out of her! :o Shouldn't you be putting stuff in not taking it out or maybe a bit of in and out combined ????

So any suggestions would be cool! I try and get her to do diff posisions and stuff, but she says im no porn star. im confused! :stoned: And then she suggests getting adventurous?? And she finds different positions make her feel like a porn star ?? God help her if you were in possesion of my imagination. :o

Help! lol

Peace

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Good luck sounds like you may need it.
In the meantime may I suggest two books :

The Joy of Sex
The Encyclopedia of Unusual Sexual Practices

owned.

But seriously, after that long of a time you gotta mix things up. Try new positions that you KNOW you can probably do well in. Pop in a porno tape watch it while your having sex with her, act out whats on the tv? Role play!
Let her do whatever she wants to do to you (within reason) one night. switch it another night.

give and take my friend its all about it.

~ Watch porn together.
~ Mutual masturbation. Watch each other.
~ Bring in toys. And use them on her.
~ New positions... just ask her if she would like to try 'this' or 'that'. You've been with her for 8 years, you all should be able to communicate perfectly.
~ Maybe anal?
~ Try some light bondage. Handcuffs and blindfolds are a good start. My ex bought these strap/rope things that ties to the bed frame.. it's really fun because she's in a compromising position so you can tease her or do what you want (of course, with her allowing). I've tied my ex to it and I had a lot of fun teasing him and doing all sorts of stuff.
~ Look into Kama Sutra.. I don't know much about it, but there are lots of books that explain what it is and how to do it.
~ Try having sex in public... that can be VERY exhilarating.

Sex is fun... don't be embarassed if you can't keep it up sometimes. It happens to everyone, especially while using condoms. Laugh it off and try again later. I mean, sometimes while I'm having sex there will be an awkward moment, or something funny happens (queefing, problems unhooking the bra, i can't get his belt undone, and I've even had guys fart while doing me).. and all this time we're both laughing. Shit like that happens and it just makes it more entertaining.

Good luck! :)