moist dreaming (need help)

...... Ok...here is the story. I was seeing this girl for a while and things were fine, we both liked humping etc. we decided to room together for next year. Well, things went sour when I got her pregnant and she needed an abortion. So, she told me that we'd never fuck again (by the time we had fizzled out, she was dating some other guy, no big deal)...Now, this is when all hell breaks loose.... She can truley be viscious to me now as I got her knocked up and she payed the bills for the abortion....i had offered and she refused? But, like i said, were living together come this fall so we have to stay on good terms which leaves me in a pickle. I still support her like i was her bf and take some of her shit occasionaly (also provide a shoulder for her to cry on when she needs), but i am not really getting anything in return...I am a good guy and I dont really expect to be gettign anything, but sometimes I slip up(im only human) and get urges to do nasty things to her.. I mean, i get the short end of the stick most of the time, atleast beforehand,she could make up for it by lending me a "favor" or something.

....... I feel like an asshole expecting that from her, but it is strange teetering on that just friends thing.. especially when i help her get by and she gives me one of those bouncing eyelashes "how can i ever repay you" look. I guess the urges will subside soon enough but here is where it gets kind of interesting...

. the other night, she was over (we still sleep in the same bed every once in a while) and I was just laying there sleeping with my arm around her... But i started to have this really amazing erotic dream. Have you ever grabbed real objects in your dream thinking it was just somethign in the actual dream? Well, thats what i did.... By the time she or i had realized it, my hand was down her pants, and the rubbing that i thought was just occuring in only my dream had actually happened. My pointer finger was just right over her warm (and by this point kind of moist) vaginal area.
...... She said something, i dont remember what, something along the lines of i cant believe you... and i responded with something like i didnt even realize...I quickly jerked my hand back across her shaved pubic area and I rolled over to the other side of the bed completely embarassed and feeling like the ultimate jerk.

.... Like i said, id like to stay on good terms and she hasnt mentioned anything about it. I have told her in the past few days about how more and more frequently, i have a hard time deciphering my realistic dreams from actual occurences.(i dont know if that is a problem, but it sure is creepy when i ask someone about what they said the other day about so and so and they look at me completely dumbfounded...then i realize it must have been from a dream)

.... but i have really no idea what i am supposed to tell her....or if i should just remind her of my vivid dreaming.
what the fuck am i supposed to do?
please...any advice will help me.

sorry about the long post but seeing as how it is about sexual related topics, you probably will be able to get through it.

thats some wacky shit right there, great read for me personally
sorry i cant help you

man i should slap you
i cant believe you man
you were rubbing a warm snatch and you
left it there unattended all alone to get un-moist
you sleep in a bed with a girl and no sex.
you are definately a nice guy.too nice.
if you would have fucked her with all your might
then no matter what her brain says like " dont fuck him "
her body will win.he makes me cum so good.then the thought turns
into an obsession and you get fucked " cmon guy be smart.

Brilliant idea. I'll just rape the girl I am living with this fall...that won't make it akward at all, nope, not in the slightest bit. Sorry, next time the logical part of my brain kicks in and says "show restraint, she doesn't want to" or "don't force her to fuck you", I'll just have to tune it out.......
But yeah, can anyone send me some advice, do you think I should talk to her about it or just let it be?

girls dont sleep in beds with guys they dont wanna ride.
i didnt say rape idiot i said follow the signs.
women are complicated.
one day you'll understand my child.
till then happy learning.

If you feel you are raping her then I think you have problem man
She would not have allowed it to get that far in the first place if she did not want it.
Same bed?? finger in choochi??
Like Owl said, the signs man, the signs!!!

maybe youll get lucky and shell give you a handjob in her sleep

i dont think you quite understand. I was asleep. She was asleep. I woke her up with my hand down her pants. She woke me up because she was upset with me. I personally don't see any sign there.
...by the way, I was just being facetious earlier.
This, however, does not help me out with whether or not I should talk to her about it... I guess it wouldn't really come up in conversation unless I brought it up...so there ain't no point in making it weird if it isn't wierd. Since I don't really see it as much of a sign nor do I really want a relationship with someone who gives me crap about an abortion I offered to help pay for, but they refused....I will just find another nice girl.

I woke up engaged in sexual intercourse once, but I didn't mind one little bit, lol! Of course, I'm a guy, and she initiated the hump session.

Tell her you were sleep diddling, and simply didn't realize you were doing it. I'm sure she feels somewhat violated, and probably views you as a perv now, haha! Way to go you fucking horn dog! :thumbsup:

Talk to her, and appologize for what you did, man. It really wasn't your fault, but try convincing her of that...

I feel for you, bro!

Glad I'm not in your shoes,

good idea to drop that weirdo.