Not about sex

Ok there's something that has been bugging me for about a year or so now that before that might have been understandable (about 2 years ago or before that). The thing is that I feel that girls often completely ignore me, and when I try to talk to a lot of them they also sort of ignore me, or sometimes try to give me a hard time when I want to make a conversation. Now the thing is, not being a critic of myself, I've been told many times that I'm a very attractive person. Like I said, it wasn't so until about a year and a half ago when I wasn't fat anymore. It really pisses me off, because I've been wanting a girlfriend for the longest time now, and it sometimes seems even wrong that I don't have one. And no, I'm not an asshole, I'm nicer than most people I know. I actually can't believe sometimes what some of my friends say or do when they're around girls. Then I try to be a gentleman and feel completely stupid. I just don't get it.

Come on guys give me something to dwell on before I hit the sack.

Let me also mention that I have a feeling that if I lived anywhere else in the world, things would be different.

Man oh man, that is funny. Let me give you a little hint, let THEM do all the work for you. Make yourself seem mysterious, that will get women thinking about you on your own.

But i'm sure nothing or anyone else says will actually be of any help. I know what its like to be thinkin like you. It can be really fuckin frustrating sometimes. Realize this though, NO ONE can help you with matters of love. There are different tricks for everybody.

~I've been told all this by a couple of girls~
My trick is that to most i appear to be a skinni (i weigh 105 pnd, dropped down to 90 in jail) cocky pick of a guy who wears flashy corny dress shirts. They talk to me a bit, realize that when i'm being a dick i'm only joking which makes em think "... Hey, maybe theres more to this guy then i thought ..." And that gets them interested. That and it helps that im apparently "cute" which isn't always a good thing.
Also i appear totally uniterested in matters of sex and love (because i am not) and for some reason they jump on that. Almost like its a game, it takes a lot of strategy and my strategy is to let them do all the work for me while i do what i do best, get high and then get higher! All i have to do is choose when to make my move.

Well you see, it seems that on the contrary, when I'm not making an effort to speak with them or whatever, they seem to sort of shy away from saying anything to me. Like I can actually see girls giving me looks and such, but nobody ever says anything to me. And when I try to make an approach it feels like I'm ignored. Quite the dilemma if I could say. Unless there's just something wrong with me, but I don't think that is the case.

I just thought about this: could it be that we both make each other nervous. Because I will admit, girls that I'm attracted to, especially those I'm REALLY attracted to, can make me a little nervous (not nearly as much as in the past) because they are really unpredictable to me. Maybe they get nervous like that around me and don't know what to say. Ok am I sounding like an ass here? lol:rasta:

btw sorry about the multiple replies but what's up with the no editing after 5 minutes thing?

theres such a thing as being too tall, thats scary to me too

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Originally Posted by justinsane

theres such a thing as being too tall, thats scary to me too

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That's when you become a Basketball Star in high school, by default, and that will get you, at least, one chick.

For sure, being tall in high school is a plus, as long as you're not fat at the same time. I don't see what this has to do with my question since I am not tall I'm average height.