starting to freak out here

whenever im with my gf, i mean whenever, she always invites her cousin to come along. now im friends with him, but he is pretty stupid and it gets pretty fucking annoying when im sitting next to my gf on her bed, and her cousin is right there staring at us.

this kids actually pretty fucking retarded and she somehow finds his company soooooo great. he says the dumbest things and is always up to something stupid. for exapmle, he pisses in the sink. at my fucking house he pissed in my sink. he never uses the toilet

i really think he is semi retarded or something. and he's always on my gf, like rubbing his hair on her or bitting her pretending to be a vampire (he's always playing games like a 4 year old). at first when i think about this it pisses me off, but then it makes me so depressed. am i not even important enough to her for her to at least OCCASIONALLY hang out with only me? does she really need him to be there every time were together? i feel like i'm really not that important at all to her and it makes me feel like shit.

okay im rambling on about nothing with no soulution. sorry i just had to vent somehow

You should talk to her about it, tell her how you feel and if she still wants it to be all three of you guys then you should break up with her, as its not really a normal thing. Only break up with her if talking to her will not work. Thats just my opinion.

i'd beat his ass... there wa thi sone time that our "cousin" (he's not really a cousin, but almost kinda hard to explain) pissed in my bro's mouth while he was asleep... then i told him i was going to tell my bro what he did (he woulda got his ass beat down bad) if he didn't suck my dick... eventually he agreed and i told him to close his eyes cuz i don't want him looking at my dick... which he did, then i told him to open his mouth... when he did i let loose like a fuckin fire hydrant... i must've pissed about a liter's worth the piss in his mouth and he started screaming... the next day when my bro woke up i told him about the whole night... and he got his ass beat, bad...

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Originally Posted by dopesmoker

You should talk to her about it, tell her how you feel and if she still wants it to be all three of you guys then you should break up with her, as its not really a normal thing. Only break up with her if talking to her will not work. Thats just my opinion.

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Agreed.

yea man talk 2 her bout it

if ur ofl enuff to have a relationship with sum1 ur should be old enuff to say it to her

trust me it will all go well

communication is definatly the key, maybe she cant really handle the relationship she might want too but doesnt now how so havng her cousin there makes it easier for her.
she mght just need you to open the channel of communication so that she nows she can talk to you about it, this is all just me speculating from my own past experiances as a woman i now how sometimes its hard to talk to you guys just as vise versa.
hope all goes well!!

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

i'd beat his ass... there wa thi sone time that our "cousin" (he's not really a cousin, but almost kinda hard to explain) pissed in my bro's mouth while he was asleep... then i told him i was going to tell my bro what he did (he woulda got his ass beat down bad) if he didn't suck my dick... eventually he agreed and i told him to close his eyes cuz i don't want him looking at my dick... which he did, then i told him to open his mouth... when he did i let loose like a fuckin fire hydrant... i must've pissed about a liter's worth the piss in his mouth and he started screaming... the next day when my bro woke up i told him about the whole night... and he got his ass beat, bad...

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ummmmmmm?

please tell me you're joking..?

Well, I'm hoping you've at least mentioned this to her. Women sometimes miss all hints you give them of you being unhappy unless you flat out tell them. You have to learn to communicate. If she still insists on bringing her cousin, ask her why, decide if she gave you a reasonable answer, and if not, drop her. Simple as that. More fish in the sea.

My 2 cent anal-sis is that she wants to fuck her cousin and/or she has some apprehenson about being alone with you....