Dilemma

Hey everybody well i just got found out for good from my p's. I cant deny it anymore after they found my RGB. My mom thinks im usin to cope with the divorce whiche happened almost two years ago. I didnt want to tell her that im smokin just because weed is fucken bomb and i love just smokin a bowl and chillen u know. Damn mother doesnt understand that. But my dad called me up today and started talking to me but i just didnt say anything cuz i didnt feel like it and i dont give a fuck what kind of sense he tries to talk into me(my dad and his friends were the biggest drinkers in his high school and one of his buddies got really into drugs). But heres the dilemma, he said that this conversation isnt going to work over the phone and that we need to get together this weekend and talk about it. But the one question i wanna ask you he says is "are you ready to say that youll never smoke pot again? (FUCK NO!). I said i guess and hes like well then that means you still wanna get high.
When i have to go talk to him this weekend what do you think i should say? If i say yes that means that i guess im in the clear for the time being but if i ever get caught again ill be pretty fucked and tell him i dont give a fuck(which i just dont anymore) and get beat up or something but if i say no that means that those stupid gayrentals are gonna be looking over me all the fucking time. I dont know what to say to his hipocritical ass. Too bad i cant just split a j with him. sorry for makin this so long. later

the question here is this: Are you willing to risk whatever relationship you have with your parents on weed?

First: talk some sense into them. Marijuana is not a bad thing. better than alcohol and cigarettes.

Second: Do NOT get angry. Getting angry only proves to them that you lack maturity. Don't give them any advantages.

Third: Debate it. You CAN win this arguement. Aproach it with seriousness, because it is serious.

Fourth: Remember that they most likely care very much about you, especially if they want to have a talk with you about this.

Fifth and finally: Reinforce the fact that you will NOT do anything else but weed, alcohol and other various soft drugs, mostly legal. If they have any indication that you do other shit, they can flip out which could lead to rehab etc.

Also, if you decide to lie to them and say that you are going to quit, give them any other shit you may have, or hide it where they will never ever ever find it.

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Originally Posted by passit420

the question here is this: Are you willing to risk whatever relationship you have with your parents on weed?

First: talk some sense into them. Marijuana is not a bad thing. better than alcohol and cigarettes.

Second: Do NOT get angry. Getting angry only proves to them that you lack maturity. Don't give them any advantages.

Third: Debate it. You CAN win this arguement. Aproach it with seriousness, because it is serious.

Fourth: Remember that they most likely care very much about you, especially if they want to have a talk with you about this.

Fifth and finally: Reinforce the fact that you will NOT do anything else but weed, alcohol and other various soft drugs, mostly legal. If they have any indication that you do other shit, they can flip out which could lead to rehab etc.

Also, if you decide to lie to them and say that you are going to quit, give them any other shit you may have, or hide it where they will never ever ever find it.

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Exactly...There's no better advice you could find. Follow his advice and you'll do fine.

passit420 nice job...fatweedsack best of luck with your whole family thing

Dude that fucking bullshit that your dad would hit you. if my dad every touched me again id punch him in his fucking face, god damned alcoholic. listen to passit420
good luck, my mom will never give up on me doing drugs of any sort so i just deal with avoiding her and what not. peace

i know what you feel like in a way cause my mom just made me talk to a detective (for a lot of reasons) and he brought up how i smoked weed and he thought it had something to do with me not having a dad(i havent seen him since i was 5). thats 12 years ago what the hell does that have to do with me smoking? o smoke cause its fun as hell not for anti-depressant

Yeah, every one is *really* hung up on people using drugs to 'feel better' and shit. ill admit thats a bad reason to use drugs but really, how many people use them like that?

yeah i use cuz its fun and i wanna have fun. yeah my dad would woop my ass. im only 17 and im pretty fit cuz i wokrout and run all the time but he would still whoop my ass and he lets me know it.