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everytime i find a guy that seems right for me, he turns out being a dick. i've been single for 2 and a half years now. i've definitly dated my share of guys, but can't find one to get into a relationship with. is it really that hard for guys to be considerate, not get afraid of commitment, smoke pot, party, listen to good music, and chill with me?
and i'm not ugly either, and i give good head, so i don't know what the fuck my problem is. are they intimidated? or could i just be insane?
your post and screen name confuse me, are you a guy or a girl?
i'm a girl. the joke is that i'm my own anti drug.
My fiance describes the same thing for the vast majority (in fact all) of her past relationships. If there being a dick drop em like you would roadkill. There are plenty of guys who love the things you do are attractive and not a dick ;). Problem is finding em :).
If your aggressive they're probably intimidated you just gotta find a guy like myself who likes an aggressive lady. :). The most popular fantasy is still domination for males so id say your pretty well off you just gotta communicate and make them feel safe (us guys are notoriously close minded sexually and for lack of a better term "anal" when its not just us alone with our fantasies, fear of being laughed at etc etc...that can really hurt a guy who by societies rules are told were really only extensions of our ego's).
Hope you find someone nice soon but never give up probability is on your side :).
I've lived a long time trying to find that one, finally snagged him. My best advice is just like wierd said, if they act like a dick, drop em quick. Nothing teaches them a lesson like lonliness. Also work on your communication skills, if you can talk effectively to one another that is half the battle.
Where you looking?
all guys suck...when u find the right one u know so dont waste your time on the others...itll end up hurting you in the end
loneliness is normal here, it's not a problem for me tho. i'm perfectly content to sit in my garage drink a beer and smoke a blunt by myself, rather than spend lots of money at a bar just to be around people.. i don't know if that has any relevance to the topic or not tho.
Hah, before I read the other posts, I am saying that, well, I seem to have a chicken in my throat.Quote:
Originally Posted by MyAntiDrugIsAmy
Thanks, Lizka. I've heard all girls don't suck, though.Quote:
Originally Posted by lizka4200
Girl, I feel the same way you do, and I've been asking those questions a lot lately too. Guys suck basically. What I have learned though is that I had been overlooking some awesome guys without realizing it simply because I liked to date the assholes. Maybe you've been doing the same thing?