Thank you guys so much, I have finally overcome my irrational fear of women!

I finally did it! I overcame my fear of talking to girls! I took all your advices, and approached the girl with utmost confidence, a big smile on my face, and did the marine walk! I lost all fear of women, as I am able to normally socially engage in them with no problem at all!!! To catch up on what my situation was, read my post on I REALLY need to lose my virginity. I have not yet got laid, but since I now approach nearly every girl I can find, and engage in ever-improving deep conversation with her, I feel that sex is right around the corner! Im so excited about this overcome I had, and I really feel fucking great!
And fuck strip clubs, I aint going there anymore. Instead, I will use the time instead to go to the mall, and talk to every single girl I can and improve my conversation skills!! Once again, you guys did help me a lot, and I kiss your asses for it!!! my treat!
*kisses*
SEE YOU ALL, IM SO FUCKING HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

damn, mind sharing your secret? right now I'm probably worse off in that department than anybody here. (yep, believe it or not, probably worse than you were too).

mrdevious, I will love to help you now that I have learned a harsh and brutal lesson that binded me to the roots of virginity!
Ready for the secret?
Before you approach a girl...tell yourself..
What do I have to lose?? What do I have to gain?
I'll tell you...you got nothing to fucking lose, and sex to fucking gain!
Its so fucking simple..THATS THE SECRET BRO! Be fearless man...it's all about the perspective man...good positive attitude is the key!!!! Dont think of all the bad possibilities that can happen, because YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Umm..
BUMP!

The point to talking would be to get to know them so they feel comfortable with you and maybe even like you. The perk to talking to a lot of different girls is, you tend to stay in touch with the ones who like you and you have stuff in common with. So from the large pool you start with, you end up a couple weeks later with a few chicks who are interested enough to get to know you. Spend time talking to them more in social situations and resteraunts, you want to try to make them laugh and feel good around you so they like you. If they like you enough they will have sex with you, and if they like you a whole lot they will have sex with you on a regular basis. Being romantic helps, I know you may think it's mushy, but it will damn sure get you laid on a daily basis. (romantic does not mean poetry, a good sweeping kiss where you dip the girl down and hold the back of her head...whew that one is always a winner, and if your not that close, then just compliment her)
It is ok to like the girl back, in fact it is kind of impolite not to return the affection. If you don't seem to like her as much as she likes you, protocal is to let her go. It isn't fair to use someone's emotions to get stuff out of them and it's bad karma. If you act like a cad word will get around fast and you will be dateless for the rest of your school career. Remember...ugly girls have fine friends so be nice to everybody.

have teh sex with me

Excelent! Nice one dude :)

Good work buddy! I'm pleased to see you've gotten over your problem!

That's good man, right on! :cool: Hope you get some putang soon :) One word of advice though. If you can, before going out at night to look for some lovin, this may sound...umm, strange, but jack-off, fully blown load and all, before you go out :D When you first start having sex, it will take some practice to try and, last long, so blowing your load before the *big* event, will make you last a little longer in the sack.

Not trying to freak you out, just trying to help, you know...good luck man! peace Say high to Jesus for me ;) Tell him I got that bag he asked for.