on a break?

ok me and my gf are taking a "break"...WTF is that?? i mean i know what it is but are there rules? like can i sleep with other women...i still love my gf....but hey a guy needs sex..it would just be meaning less sex...and the other girl knows this...so is this wrong?

a break is not good on both ends. that's just an excuse to bone other folk and if the both of you are not comfortable with it you'd better talk about it before it gets out of hand.

yea u can fuck others...but all of us girls know thats just an excuse to be like well u fucked other people...i cant get back with you...u should talk aout it first

ya talk to her. and if shes tain a break its coz its proly not goin too well btw the 2 of ya.

haha ok im confused read this aim convo see if it makes sense to you all:

rajuncajun0314: me too but a break is good
Termite824: yeah
Termite824: we can still have sex
rajuncajun0314: sure
Termite824: buit not with other people
rajuncajun0314: jess i dont think u understand a break
rajuncajun0314: im not trying to fuck someone else but still
Termite824: then what is the still?
Termite824: im just afraid ur gonna find someone better
rajuncajun0314: no im not its just if the oppertunity for meaningless sex come up how do i respond
Termite824: u say no
rajuncajun0314: im confused
rajuncajun0314: a break is a temp break up right?
Termite824: uhh no
Termite824: a break means ur still with that person
rajuncajun0314: then what are we taking a break from?

wtf? u can still have sex but not with anyone but her? whats this whole break because of?

simple, she wants to excercise power, by saying you can't really have anything to do with her (unless she wants the attention) but you can't go screwing other people or anything that could be concieved as cheating. if i were you i'd tell her to either make up her mind whether yal or together or not and fuck this break shit.

this whole break thing is cuz the last few weeks we have just been at each others neck but we still have feelings for each other...yo women are soo confusing

slipknotpsycho is right, she's trying to control you by saying that you can't be with her, but you can't be with anyone else. For all you know she might have met someone else but wants to keep you hanging on incase it doesn't work out with them.

Then again, she might just want a break. :)

yeah slipknotpsycho has got it, ur one smart cookie