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Iâ??m definitely guilty of thisâ?¦.

http://blogs.health.yahoo.com/expert...rting-gestures

How bout you? Whatâ??s youâ??re biggest of the big, pimpest of the pimpsâ?¦. move.

My pimpest thing I like to use is .....body approximation. Iâ??ll stand far enough away to still be cool but close enough to break their normal bounds of personal space. Itâ??s tricky cause everyone is different but you can feel just a tiny bit of tension between you. Hang out in that spot for just a few seconds and then return back to my own spaceâ?¦.itâ??s a sure way to know if someone digs you or not. Because they will either give a smile or give you some sure sign that they liked the weird moment you just shared together.

Iâ??m kinda fucking stoned right now.
:)

Remind me never to start new threads when I'm stoned..... :)

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.....body approximation. Iâ??ll stand far enough away to still be cool but close enough to break their normal bounds of personal space. Itâ??s tricky cause everyone is different but you can feel just a tiny bit of tension between you. Hang out in that spot for just a few seconds and then return back to my own spaceâ?¦.itâ??s a sure way to know if someone digs you or not. Because they will either give a smile or give you some sure sign that they liked the weird moment you just shared together.

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I was on my smoke break a few weeks ago at work and this guy was talking to me, and several minutes in he did exactly what you wrote above, except for longer than a few seconds. I pretended not to notice, but it made me uncomfortable as fuck. Because of that instance I have changed my smoke break location. :(

Yeah, it's not cool if it's done in a weird creepy way. Most of the time if you just take a step back they will get the picture and leave you alone. Or if you were on your smoke break you could just move your hands a little while talking and he would either have to back off or get burned....:)

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Yeah, it's not cool if it's done in a weird creepy way. Most of the time if you just take a step back they will get the picture and leave you alone. Or if you were on your smoke break you could just move your hands a little while talking and he would either have to back off or get burned....:)

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I was leaning against the wall of the building, so I couldnt really step back, but I did casually inch my way to the left towards the exit door during the conversation to get a little more room. The hand movement idea is a good one I didnt think of, I could lie and say Im Italian, lol. My new smoke location is actually better, it has shade and an ashtray, haha.

Im stoned...

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My new smoke location is actually better, it has shade and an ashtray, haha.

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shade and an ash tray what more could a girl want.

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Im stoned...

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me too.....
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I'm guilty of 1,3, 5, and 7. I usually do smooth my clothing and stuff like that, but, more because I'm nervous, not because I'm being a big flirt. Sometimes I can be socially retarded, especially around someone I'm attracted to. :o

Me too, MJM. When i'm in a normal social situation I can appear cool and calm, but when it comes to flirting (the kind of flirting where you both know you're flirting and are both interested) i'm crap. More often than not I tend to back off instead of making 'the move'. I suck. :(

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