zandor: can you help me figure out how to top my plant?

zandor, cam tryd explaining to me how to top a plant.....he just basically told me that he took the top off his plant...HOW??? :confused: ok, alls i want to know is 1)when is the best time to top your plant? 2) and how do you do it??? can you please explain to me in good detail how to do this? :confused: it would help me out....

i want to let u know something:
when my plant came out of the soil, and it got about 6 inches tall, something happened to it, which in the long run made me get tWo main stems off of the plant....the main stem got cut somehow(i cant remember if i did it intentionally, or if it was an accident), and it grew another main stem....it looks like a "Y'' almost....as a matter a fact, it looks exactly like a Y, but one of the stems is a bit shorter than the other....THIS IsNT TOPPING THE PLANT IS IT??? i want to top my plant when it is a youngen, and i want it to bush out like crazy so there are a lot of busites!!!!!!!! :D
BUT HOW DO I DO IT ZANDOR???????OR HARD ON???????I DONT GET IT! SORRY.PLEASE HELP ME OUT... :D