heres my delima, Ladies help pleez!!!

I have been with my GF for about 2 years now,in the begining sex was GREAT!!! all day everyday.. Well after i had my breakdaown and went to jail, things have been different in our lives,including sex. She never wants to have sex,doesnt tell me she feels attracted to me,wont cuddle on the couch anymore, and if we do have sex now, she usually says it hurts and we need to stop.Now dont think im just POUNDING away, im a very unlucky male in my opinion as to be VERY well indowed ans have ran across 3-4 women that have told me the same, that i am very large and its painfull no matter how gental i try to be.
My question is this, what do i need to do to get back our spark, and i feel as if she is using the hurting excuse because she really just isnt wanting to, and if this is the case what do i do about it?
At first like i said the sex was great and the size issue only played in effect ina few rather unusaul positions.. now plain ol' misionary position hurts her..Is it really hurting her or is it an excuse??!!??!!??!!

HELP ME PLEEZ
i hate the fact i cant please my lady like i used to.

Da1,

If there hasn't been a "pain problem" in the past, this could well be a psychological/emotional issue on her part. Is the sex the only thing that has changed in your relationship, or are you noticing other differences as well?

Obviously, the best thing to do is flat-out ask her about it. There could be other underlying issues that aren't as noticible as her avoiding sex. Good luck to you!

I agree with irieallie. The best way to handle it is to just bring these issues up with your gf.