Desperatly need help from anyone

well my story goes like this, i was in a serious car accident about a year ago and one of my eyes was damaged. i lost almost all sight in that eye and since i cannot see out of it, i cant focus on stuff with it so i have kind of a lazy eye sometimes. well my problem is this is greatly affecting my life. i am afraid to look people in the eyes because i am afraid they may see it and laugh, and i am also very shy around girls because we all know that with girls eye contact is everything. I am so shy about it and i am even afraid to go to some social events because people may notice it. i just need someone to give me some advice and maybe help get my confidnce up.

One of my friends has a lazy eye. He is wicked cool with it and he jokes about it. He even has a cute girlfriend. Just dont worry about it and be youself. It really shouldn't matter to anyone.

if you have a fun attitude and alot of confidence girls dont even see that stuff. A guy who knows hes the shit is hard to resist. everybody has what they think are faults, but there is more to you than your eye problem.

who you are is important! and everything happens for a reason,there are alot of nice women out there who may see you from the inside,just be true to yourself and true to others and postives attract period..............the lord be with you.

if people laugh at you just have the satisfaction that your not so shallow.

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Originally Posted by DankBd420

well my story goes like this, i was in a serious car accident about a year ago and one of my eyes was damaged. i lost almost all sight in that eye and since i cannot see out of it, i cant focus on stuff with it so i have kind of a lazy eye sometimes. well my problem is this is greatly affecting my life. i am afraid to look people in the eyes because i am afraid they may see it and laugh, and i am also very shy around girls because we all know that with girls eye contact is everything. I am so shy about it and i am even afraid to go to some social events because people may notice it. i just need someone to give me some advice and maybe help get my confidnce up.

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One of my best childhood friends got in a real bad dirt bike accident & lost an eye. He got a glass replacement & this guy was cool.....

He got the women, grew nice green weed & had a few sweet ass sisters. Never slowed the dude down one bit. He ended up marrying a beautiful girl & now is a contractor building new homes. Hes doing great & YOU CAN TOO.

Work on confidence building.

Look dont worry about it.I had a mate like that at work we had a few jokes and shit he was cool as and i liked him alot.We worked just us two split shifts so from 4am-8am then 4pm-10pm.We had the best fun and would sneak away from work and go to the pub and have a few drinks.If you feel worried just tell them that you had an accident and feel a bit shy im sure they would appreciate your honesty.He told me why his eye was like that his father did it when he was 9 he bashed him so bad and didnt take him to hospital.Girls will love you no matter what just try and be a bit more confident.This guy was so shy with me also but once he realised i was a cool fun girl he wasnt shy anymore.