weird hermie question

been looking around for this but everywhere I see "male plant cannot turn female" so I instantly stop looking. I had a beautiful plant that I lsted to perfection, proved to be a really sturdy, hardy plant but I identified it as male, early. No pistils, just balls, looked obviously male. So I pulled it from its pot and threw it somewhere. Obviously this must have stressed it, but the next time I saw it, it had balls, pistils and budsites/seedpods with seeds already in it. My 2 questions are:

1. Was it a hermie all along and the nuts just showed first? (like 2 months before)

2. Are these seeds "feminized" or have a big pool of possibilities?

sorry to be redundant, my question just seems a little different than most I've came across