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Not sure if this is the right place to post, but dating seems almost impossible if you're growing! Has anyone else felt like this? How do you deal with this issue? Trust is earned, so in the meantime what can I do? I've never been this lonely. Any feedback or advice is appreciated. Thanks!
Hang in there, and tend your garden, because as soon as you have them buds harvested and cured, I'm sure you'll not be lonely then!! :wave1:Quote:
Originally Posted by prettypisces
Yes, just be patient and wait it out....you'll have more friends than you know what to do with when it's finished and cured! Trust me...my bros always seem to know when it's getting close cuz the phone starts ringing off the wall, and I start getting invites to do all kinds of stuff after three months of hibernation.;) Hey, you got the girls and us until then...we all in the same boat, bro. I got a dog too and he helps...go get a dog or a pet of some kind (HINT: they make co2 also!:D)
I get the same feeling sometimes.
Dating and inviting someone to see my grow room are two completely different things! One simply would never be done... the other is a necessary part of life!Quote:
Originally Posted by prettypisces
Emmie
Thanks guys, I just might get an apartment and hide the fact that I have a house so I can have a normal social life. After a couple of weeks, the men I've dated start to wonder why they can't come over. The last guy said he felt like I was living with a boyfriend and didn't have time for games...my ideal situation would be to grow WITH my boyfriend! Frustrating...
I feel for you, pretty. But keeping your situation private is the key to a successful and undetected grow.Quote:
Originally Posted by prettypisces
Personally if someone can not understand that I want a private life outside of the dating realms and choose to not have them in my apt./home etc. if they can not understand this then they are not worth my time and trouble.
Best of luck to you and your dating life! My hopes for you is to find a grower whom is as "paranoid" as you and you fall in love and live a happy, healthy and high life together! I'll be watching ...
Best regards to you,
Lynhal
Yes, that would be awesome :) Ok, who knows the dating website where all the paranoid growers are?? lol
Well, I have a significant other, who knows all about my activities, but there are times I still feel "lonely", because I have this huge area of my life that is so out of the expected for my gender and age. There isn't anyone I feel I can be safely honest with, and that will probably stay the same.
My kids are in their 30's and they know, but they don't of course live with or near me, but other than that, absolutely no one knows. They tease me, but they understand that this is helping my MS immensely. When their significant others comment on how well I'm doing/moving, they can't tell them why, either. They just smile, agree and say it must be the yoga.
Even if it were a legal activity in my state, I still wouldn't flaunt it, just keep quiet. But, I do wish my state would make an honest woman of me.
These forums are the only place I can talk about any of this. It is lonely, but I guess that this is the choice I've made. I guess everything in life has some price.
Thanks Lynhal for bringing this up. It is a difficult thing to manage. Can't even imagine how I would deal with dating!
Hell, if I knew that information I'd have a love life!Quote:
Originally Posted by prettypisces
I hope you can figure out where that is because I would be a member in
2 seconds flat!
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