I Just Found Out

I just found out that my gf cheated on me :( not recently but we have been going out for a year and 2 months and she calls me 2day and tells me she cheated on me a year ago, and i said why because i would never cheat on nobody honestly, and she said because at the time she didnt trust me :( i dont see how i did everything and anything for her, then she said she didnt know we were to get serious, and i love her soooooo much and i'm just real hurt, i could never see her doing that to me!! and now shes cryin and i dont feel bad for her anymore because i am hurt beyond reason :(

If i was you i'd say fuck that bitch. Or cheat on her, that's fair.

dude id forgive her, and at the same time keep an close eye on her.
She at least told u about that witch means she feels somting for u, so dont dred on somthin that happend a year ago, work on what u have now, but lett her know that ur serious about her.
Comunication in a relationship is one of the keys to happyness

Peace bro and hope itall works out for the two of ya

Yeah, forgive her, take her back. Then she'll know that in the future if she does it again, you can both just have a good cry about it, then move on with your (exclusive?) relationship. No harm, no foul.

Open your eyes man, she was shopping around for something better at the beginning stages of the relationship- that in and of itself is not a huge deal if you guys weren't so serious then (women shop), but think about it. For the duration of your relationship, while you were supposedly building TRUST, she kept this from you the entire year.

Hey homie,

Ya know...if i put myself in your place and I was cheated on but I love the girl i'de make it very clear that I would never ever cheat on her. Theres no point in trying to make the girl feel guilty (It was a long time ago that she has done this) besides you wouldent be any better if you made her feel like shit about it. You love her so just tell her you forgive her because your guys love is a lot more important than her sleeping with someone else a year ago. Everything will pass over our own heads at some point and this will too pass over. Peace!

To be honest, I think the fact of her cheating on you so long ago wouldve been eating at her for ages (hence why she told you now). Although I dont condone this sort of behaviour at all, I believe that she must have feelings for you if she was to tell you that she cheated, and so long ago. I still wouldnt take it lightly, give her some time to think about what she has done. If you feel the relationship has nothing left then leave her but if you still love her then you should consider staying with her. Good luck.

forgive her, but don't take her back. her blaming her infidelity on her not trusting you is a bogus argument--i've made it before. bottomline-if she really cared for you (trusting or not) she wouldn't have done that to you and she definately wouldn't have waited a whole year before saying something. Don't forget that you are in control of the situation; she fucked up, you didn't.

Cheat on her.

I'm sorry, but dump her ass. Personally, I've never been in that situation (thankfully) so I don't know how I'd really react, but just hearing about it makes my blood boil.

Even if she did it when you were starting to go out, that's no excuse. You wanna fuck someone else, at least have the decency to tell the peson you're with that you're interested in someone else. That's the way I seee it.

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Originally Posted by Rarrr

To be honest, I think the fact of her cheating on you so long ago wouldve been eating at her for ages (hence why she told you now). Although I dont condone this sort of behaviour at all, I believe that she must have feelings for you if she was to tell you that she cheated, and so long ago. I still wouldnt take it lightly, give her some time to think about what she has done. If you feel the relationship has nothing left then leave her but if you still love her then you should consider staying with her. Good luck.

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Yeah yeah! Rawrs right. Altho even if i had cheated on my bf and it was eating me up inside I wouldent even tell him cuz oviuosly it would hurt him, and perhaps us both. Yeah know? but yeah it probibly was really making her feel bad so be easy on her.