Hello New User and LOST

hello name is Lynn, just signed up today got my MMJ card on friday, and lost and overwhelmed and lots of questions,,and was told by other people to sign up here and ask away..Washington state is where Im at,,knowledge wise on MEDS is a shot glass dumped in a 5 gallon bucket.(meaning nothing).since everyone here says to grow your own, what do I need,,exactly and how do I use it,,found 2 hydropoincs stores close to me ECO in shoreline and grow something in edmonds H-99 anyway I have 1350$ cash I want to grow in soil so can someone give me alist on what to buy lights/containers soil nutrients and how to use them drop for drop,, I ordered seeds this morning from Attitude seed (TH SEEDS Heavey duty fruity- 2nd Big buddha blue cheese) and from sensible seeds ( gold seal seeds called grapegod 2nd nextgeneration seeds called blue dynamite) 400$ us dollars total leaving me with 1350.00$ for everything else growlights books nutrients soil pots fans mylar..and got a endless supply of co-2 company next door has dry ice, read that 1lb of dry ice will give you 1200ppm co2 in a room 8x8x3 a closet, so will bring home 3lbs a day..thats covered,,so any and all info would be appreciated, and please tell me how and why this nutrients you suggested,and when and how to use it, just keep it simple premixed stuff, also have a 12mega camera will take pictures of set-up and grow..big intoduction, So while I wait to get seeds in the mail would like to buy and set-up grow room with everything I need again thankyou ( is there any recourse if I dont get my seeds in the mail attitude seeds says so sorry but we dont reship, so that means I would be out almost 200$,whats to stop them from ripping me off) I guess I should have asked where to buy seeds -so if there's a place that most people use and there honest please let me know, also if these 2 places i ordered from are rip-offs please let me know, I order because they had nice flashy web sites on my goole search for seeds)