Difference between North And South Jersey

So i've lived in North Jersey all my life besides college pretty much, Passaic County to be exact and never ever had a problem scoring at any given time, I'm a tad older now still a young 30, But as a smoker i made the worst decision of my life when i moved to Brick Twsp area...

Why is that well for 2 years I can't find a damn thing here not ever some dirt weed, So what am I doing wrong the general census says you need a phone number down here to get anything which i believe but why is that?

Weed is weed not very illegal imo to hide it like you are running some heavy shit, I could get in my car now and drive to North Jersey without any contacts and be back on the turnpike with an ounce of high grade in 10 minutes time, But in South Jersey i could ride around till my ass starts bleeding and not get anything.

So far people have told me to try two things which i don't deem to be safe at all, One is to walk around the mall in Toms River and approach people, Two is to stalk the baordwalk in Seaside and do the same thing, Maybe if i was 18 and didn't care i would but sadly i have a job, wife, kid and none of that warrants me to compromise that but approaching random people and talk about narcotics lol.

So please someone in South Jersey enlighten me on how to score pot down here without the aid of a phone number I would be highly appreciative, key word highly :)