An essay on the balance of love and wisdom

Some people are simply not ready to accept this concept as it goes beyond their understanding, and that is fine. You donâ??t go to college until you first learn the lessons of high school. Every entity awakens at its own pace and its our LOVING duty to respect that free will obligation.

What is love/compassion? It has very different meanings. In our general understanding, love can either be seen as attached, (i.e marriage, sex, etc), or more compassionate, such as helping a person without care (i.e friendship, counseling).

Its very important to understand that the key to the positive path is acceptance. The key to the negative path is control.

We all know (consciously or subconsciously) that we must eventually let go of our loving attachments to people and things, including friends, partners and spouses. In my understanding, these forms of â??loveâ?� are seen as enslavement, as it requires unquestionable loyalty to the other self due to a promise. However, one cannot engage in the sexual act because without some kind of attachment, it is seen as selfish and only for the betterment of the self. So screwing around too does not make things positive at all. I can now get a far better understanding of why mystics and religious orders, most notably the Gnostics, shun the sexual act in its entirety. There is wisdom behind this logic for those who have ears and those who have eyes.

However, there lies the irony. The only conclusion then is that the â??natural biologicalâ?� aspect of the love/sexual act must be crucified (symbolically of course), and this really freaks people out a lot. They claim, â??well I love my spouse too much to get rid of them! They fulfill me!â?� My response is simply that they havenâ??t realized the full consequences yet for such an action. Thatâ??s why they go through it. It only SEEMS they are fulfilling you and providing physical needs, but in the long run, if they continue to choose lives filled with attachments to other people and things, they will never make positive progress. They themselves will become enslaved.

You can go through a 3rd density incarnation, and live a â??normalâ?� life. But even though you may be happy in this life, that doesnâ??t mean you will progress spiritually. You will most likely repeat the lesson again and again until you change. In fact, there are many NEGATIVE entities who are happy the way they are too. So donâ??t let happiness distort reality.

In short, you need to suck it up, for this is merely a test. Suffering is part of the test, in fact, detachment from another entity is perhaps the hardest task one can do because our love is misguided.

But what most people donâ??t realize in this body, is that the higher you go through the dimensions, you no longer have any of those attached desires, or â??biological hindrancesâ?�. You are in full bliss and peace. There is no need to depend on joy from others since the joy you manifest comes from within. YOU ARE AN ENTITY UNTO YOURSELF!

Remember, we are not just physical beings. The sexual drive is merely a device used for procreation (red ray chakrah energy), with attached feelings coming with it. Yes it comes with the territory, but even though it appears to be natural, that doesnâ??t mean that it should be acted upon. Everyone has natural dark thoughts. Should those thoughts be acted upon also?

Saint Augustine so eloquently summed it up like this; there is nothing inherently evil that God creates, only higher and lesser things. Therefore, all is seen as good. In my view, lower things, like sex and attachment, happen for a reason in order for us to learn the folly of them ourselves. No pain, no gain. Except a vast majority keep repeating the same mistakes due to the emotional concurrences within the act itself.

I think this is what Saint Augustine is trying to convey. Take for example, a person who loves very deeply and is emotionally driven. That person looks to be fulfilled emotionally, but not by themselves. Now from our (3rd density) experience, we are told that we must engage in an attached love in order to be â??happyâ?�. So the person eventually meets someone and marries them. You seem to be satisfied both emotionally and physically. However, is the other person the same way? In fact, most marriages end I believe due to the fact that the â??natural biologicalâ?� sexual spark has faded. Some relationships are totally based on sex, and this is a very severe problem. Even in marriage, once that sexual fulfilling spark has extinguished itself, its back to square one, and the cycle repeats itself. This is why a lot of married couples or even just in the bf/gf stage cheat on each other because of their vain need to fulfill animalistic desires. My most loving compassionate side will not condemn them, but the wisdom side informs me to not engage in such lower behaviors, despite how natural they may seem.

Based on the previous assumptions, should â??loveâ?� be totally denied then? The answer is no. There is a difference between compassion and attachment. True love in my opinion is where you see all as equal, and are willing to help someone out, but only on conditions. Unconditional love is the problem. You can only do some much. When the entity itself offering the aid is under threat, then it is time for that entity to take its leave. There is full balance in this aspect.

So then what is love? How should love be carried forth then? The answer is that an entity who seeks to grow and detach themselves and still love another self will have a very hard time expressing this new belief due to the â??nuisanceâ?� of the physical body complex and its â??naturalâ?� programming, as well as how the world currently operates. This is mandated and is part of the test as well, but a much higher test. That doesnâ??t go away, so it needs to be mentally challenged. Time to use those dormant, yet new powers! You must say to yourself, â??I am not one of that way. I am higher then this. This isnâ??t the way it should be!â?�

You may freely offer advice and communicate with others. However, you do not offer your services where it not required and you offer your service under the laws of wisdom. The danger/challenge is that the new adept will sink back down into the animal stage while in this body due to the natural bodily complex of the entity. Certain variables may arise throughout the course of the entityâ??s incarnation.

But this is the purpose of wisdom. It is to inform us when we should love, and when we need to refrain ourselves for the greater good. We cannot simply act on loving impulses without having the knowledge of what we are really doing. In short, we must stop living totally in the moment as much as possible, and see the moment and future as one thing.

Another good example of limiting compassion is say you have a friend who constantly does things YOU see as harmful and not only stagnates their growth, but possibly your growth as well. You may pity and still love this person as part of the Creator, yet you know that you cannot be around this person due to the obvious differences. Using wisdom, you realize that you cannot let this entity drag you back down, no matter how much you â??loveâ?� them. You must let them go their own way, free to continue in their ways. This is such a very hard act to accomplish, if not impossible. But life here was never going to be easy. Don't think for a moment that I do not suffer here as well.

In this view, your compassion/love is seen as respecting free will and letting them go on the path in order so they can learn the error of their way themselves eventually without your interference. Respecting someone's choice is compassion. The wisdom aspect is knowing that you cannot give anymore aid to this person because of their refusal to comply with the higher and less distorted aspects of reality. When a higher density being incarnates to mingle with â??the commonersâ?�, it is a guessing game. That is something that cannot be allowed. This is where wisdom comes in.

At this point, you now learn that love is folly when seen through the eyes of wisdom. Giving to much unconditional love will hinder you from growing because you are not taking time for yourself. You are not thinkingâ?¦just acting on impulse. You can only help so many entities. Other selves ARE NOT your responsibility, only your karma to them. As for me, I merely observe and catalog peopleâ??s weaknesses and strengths for my own learning. I seldom offer any advice because I don't want to infringe on free will. But just because I choose not to get involved in peoplesâ?? lives, doesnâ??t mean I donâ??t have emotions towards them. I love others very much, but the point is that you cannot allow yourself to be dragged back down to a part in which you have already escaped. There would be no point.

The level where you have perfect balance of love and wisdom is 6th density. This is the level where your Higher Self is at.

3rd density = Free Choice (yellow ray)
4th density = Love (green ray)
5th density = Wisdom (blue ray)
6th density = Unity (indigo ray) HIGHER SELF
7th density = Oneness (violet ray)

You cannot force someone to accept your beliefs or thinking. As I stated, we are all on different levels of evolution. You can only offer aid to an extent, AND WHEN CALLED!

In conclusion, if you are person who has very deep attachments to people and objects, you are only setting yourself up for destruction and most likely repetition of this 3rd density we presently find ourselves in. There can never be ownership or attachment to someone else since All is One.

I have to take a dence shit, excuse me.