what do u think...

i've decided that i'm going to stop being down about myself and have a little fucken confidence. :) im not ugly so i've just been fixing myself up a little and working out. my bf absolutely loves my new confidence boost, flexability and body transformation. i have totally changed my eating habits (no dieting bullshit) and i am getting happier with myself. ok anyway, the thing is that other guys have been noticing me too. one of my ex's just came back into my life (kinda) and i don't know what to do. i love my bf to death (seriously) but i am a huge flirt, always have been even before my confidence boost. is it wrong to like the attention from other guys? is it ok to flirt when my bf isn't around? i wouldn't do anything like cheat, i just like how it feels to be desired. is that so wrong? :confused:

I know exactly how you feel, Belleza. I've been heavy, too, and when you lose all of the weight you feel brand new and, suddenly, guys that didn't really pay much attention before are all over you. It is not wrong to like the attention...in fact you deserve it. If you honestly believe that you can flirt and not cheat then there is nothing wrong with it unless it upsets your bf. You don't want to push away the guy that was always there for you for some other guy who is just noticing how beautiful you are now. :)

And congratulations on taking better care of yourself. Enjoy!

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Originally Posted by maryjanemama

I know exactly how you feel, Belleza. I've been heavy, too, and when you lose all of the weight you feel brand new and, suddenly, guys that didn't really pay much attention before are all over you. It is not wrong to like the attention...in fact you deserve it. If you honestly believe that you can flirt and not cheat then there is nothing wrong with it unless it upsets your bf. You don't want to push away the guy that was always there for you for some other guy who is just noticing how beautiful you are now. :)

And congratulations on taking better care of yourself. Enjoy!

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man your cool, lol ok thats not exactly what i meant but lol ur awsome like all the advice you give and shit is great lool sry lil stoned lol anyways id just thought id share, and well if i was your bf i wouldnt want u flirtin with other guys but then agian dont know ur bf, cuz i hope that when im not around my gf isnt flirting with ohter guys....

I bet you are very sexy and just don't know it

Its good that you like attention from guys.I dont.Just my boyfriend.I love the attention from him cause i know its real because i can tell by the look on his face when he is excited and that makes me excited.I hate men i dont know giving me attention.They can get fucked.A few compliments to me aint gonna get a man anywhere.In fact there the type i least like.

Bell - I think that's awesome. ^.^ I don't know why you didn't have the confidence boost like, forever ago, since you're very attractive. Anyway, watch the movie kids. ^.^ Guys that give attention to hot girls, alot of them are shits. Some are genuine no doubt though. I'd just say try not to flirt too much with guys other then your boyfriend. At some point it might get too tempting to cheat. Unless, that is, you've got alot more self-control then me. Jacque was right about one thing though, the love you get from your boyfriend you know is genuine, so flirting and having fun with him might be your best option.

Bellz theres nothing better to me than seeing a big whopping boner on my man.If its in his hand well that is excitement plus for me

Hey Bellz give us a look at ya sweety

gj bell.....i was heavy too and i lost a shitload of weight from excersisng and eating better....and i look and feel great now

congrats....and dont to flirt to much lol

later

I guess it boils down to if you can stand next to ur bf and watch him try to mac on some chick...like...literally be there and see it, cuz if you do it at the wrong time and he sees...if hes pissed ur out of a good friend