Got caught with friends pipe

Man today i could'nt find my cellphone so i asked mdad to help me find it and had no idea it would end up biting me in the ass. So he's lookin around for it and looks in my car under my seat and finds a foil pipe that my friend had put under there and forgot about just a few days ago. So i told him i had never seen it beofre, which is true, but he ends up bringing a test home and of course i turn up positive for weed.
Heres the worst part: WHile im away at my hockey game he goes through all my stuff and finds 36 gs of 10x salvia that I bought to sell to my friends (salvia sells really fast in my area), and trashes everyone of them. $50 worth of the salvia was my friends so i also have to get him his money back too.
Not only did he do that, he is now planning on selling my car because he thinks im a drug addict since I told him weed is the only thing thats ever helped my social anxiety; he thinks I use it as a crutch or something. If i sells my car its going to fuck over my job situation, and im going to have to ask my friends to go out of there way to givee rides to places. This is so fucked up. I tried to explain to him that he is causing more damage to my life than weed ever could but he doesnt understand. I've tried telling him that i dont drink, smoke cigs, or do any other drugs but that doesnt seem to help either. Oh well, im just realyl pissed off right now. If anyoen has any advice for how i can get my dad (my mom doesnt really care) to be more lenient towards bud i would greatly appreciate it. PEACE

It depends on how old you are. I'm assuming you're like 17. The salvia thing is really gonna kill you, I think, cause most parents never heard of it, they probly think it's a lot worse than it really is.

Try asking your old man if he ever smoked weed as a kid. If he says no he's either lying or a very closed minded individual.

yeah just w8 till he kalms down a lil and talk to him and try to talk him outta doin all that shit. and stay kalm yourself, it wont help you if you bust in and start yellin at him.

yea dont get loud and shit with him, but thats hard as hell cuz parents (at least my mom) says shit that you just want to fuckin beat her with a stick for, but it only makes it worse, id keep a low profile for a lil while then go and have a talk with him

Just give him the facts, and be sure to back up any objection you have to the government lies he's going to regurgitate.
http://www.marijuanafacts.org

Man, after coming to these boards for a long time now i have come to the conclusision that ya'll got some fucked up parents lol

dont blame your dad for your own mistakes man

at the same time.. drugs are illegal..

couldn't you see his concern?

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Many aspects of his life are totally fucked over because of a harmless, yet socially unacceptable activity. Can't you see HIS concern?

First off, if you really are just smoking pot and what not... then tell your parents to fuck off, think about all the other fuckin drugs you could be on.. such as meth fucking your life over, but it isnt, its just pot! :) i dunno, my parents found out and got over it a long time ago =\

Sit down with him and have a civilized talk about it. I know its hard to think about, especially since your dad sounds pretty close-minded. Hell, my dad is the same way. I got caught with an ounce when I was in the ninth grade and they shit a brick. They were threatin to call the cops and everything. Luckily if I got caught again now I'd be able to handle it much better. GL though man.