Need advice on which girl to go after

A couple months ago I asked questions about how to get girls. Since then I've become a pro at attracting girls, but haven't closed the deal yet.

Ok, so one of my roomate's friends back from high school is Kim. I've known her for a while, we always meet at parties and stuff. On Friday my roomate Dave and I run into Kim and her roomate, Alexia who I met for the first time. Dave was catching up with Kim, and at the same time I got to know Alexia. We hung out for about two hours. My game was textbook, I am sure I made a good impression on Alexia.

Then on Saturday I go to Kim's party. I arrive late, and Alexia is already wasted by then, so I don't start anything, we barely exchanged a couple sentences during the night. I had an awesome time though cuz I had a lot of buddies there.

So here's the problem. Today, going to class I run into Kim, and the way she looked totally surprised me. She was suddenly very shy, I've never seen her shy. Everything about her was suddenly shy, her facial expression, her posture, her voice. It was like the inexperienced girl trying to approach the guy she likes, and the guy is me. I've seen this a lot of times, and I'm sure I'm right about it.

I will probably meet both of them at the same time next, when they throw their next party.

Alexia: She's hot, definately interested in me, but far more experienced than me for sure

Kim: She's OK, not someone you'd notice walking past you but kind of pretty. I'm pretty sure she has a crush on me from what I saw today, but the problem is, that she is pretty close friends with my roommate and I don't want to make awkward situations, though I don't see her too much, and it's almost always in bigger groups, so it wouldn't be that bad

Can I play it off to get Alexia? Kim has no idea I know she likes me. If I were to get Kim, should I expect awkward situations or will it be cool. Dave does not want to be anything more than friends with Kim, he's made it very clear. And should I just go after Kim, because she'd be an easy target? I am still a virgin after-all.

I know it's hard to answer questions like this when you only know so little. Just post whatever you want even if it doesn't answer my question. I'm not gonna limit myself by rules for sure, but having a little strategy going in could help.

This is a completely unscientific and worthless answer, but I've always found girls who are named Kim to be very well worth dating.

dragonrider is the man, he should get both those ladies.

Yeah, I'd say Kim would be more satisfying in the long run... Go for it!

If the two girls are room mates chances are that Alexia knows that Kim likes you (if you're right and she does) and wouldnt do anything with you that would cause drama between them.

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Originally Posted by Metaphor

dragonrider is the man, he should get both those ladies.

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Yes! I should get both those ladies! Ha Ha!
I need to check with my wife first, but I'll get back to you and let you know if you should send them over....

You must genially like one more than the other, it would make sense to chose that one and stick with it.

You already have great advice.. but I just wanted to add.....it really all depends on what you want the girl for.
For a relationship or just to have sex with.

From what I've gathered, Alexia gets wasted and makes you think she's more expierenced than yourself. hmmm, that sounds like trouble. I wouldn't want to start a relationship with someone like that. And since you are a virgin, you might not please her. But you could maybe learn a lot of technique......"first-hand" haha

and then you have the more conservative, not as good looking but has you interested and last but not least....SHY kim. She sounds like a sweetheart.
You could easily learn about sex with her and not worry about her being bored to boot!
and of course, she's more relationship worthy.


i'd choose Kim.

Good luck, man. girls are fun!:thumbsup:

I think u shoulld go for Kim. She seems sweet and like spoken said she wont get bored with sex and u can feelmore comfortable with her which will make it better for u both. anyway if doesnt work out u have popped your cherry and can move on to alexia hahaha. she sounds like a bit of a tart dont think the dating her roomate will stop her lol.ignore me im a bad influence :jointsmile:

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Originally Posted by PackAnotherBowl

I think you should go for Alexia,but on the other hand Kim sounds truly sweet. Try them both...then choose who you like.

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try them both and lose them both I think, inless your some sort of machine. :jointsmile: