Am I Stupid???

theres this girl i met a few days ago she came 2 visit a friend around here and shes from a few provinces away... we both liked eachother and tonite was the last night she was gonna be here before she left and weve been hangin out for the last 2 days...

so anyways, we were up in the room where she was staying we had some friends over n stuff and after they left and it was just the two of us. i no we cudda had sex but i dont know i just wouldnt of felt right doing it. not that theres anything wrong with her its just that shes a really nice girl and i donno... im not really sure why i didnt, i wasnt nervous or nething... i just felt like it wasnt the right thing to do? am i stupid for thinking this?

No sir, you are not. It's perfectly natural, and I know exactly what you're talking about. It might not have been the best decision, but you can't be blamed for making it. If she wanted to have sex, and so did you, and she knew that you weren't going to see each other for quite a while, as did you, then I see no problem. But you clearly respect her, which is always a good thing.

Cheers :thumbsup:

I had a chance to hit one of the hottest girls i had ever seen, she was a co-worker/friends sister and she was in town visiting him, and she said she wanted to hang out with me and drink. I was nervous and didn't go over. She showed up in the sexy boy short panties and halter top at my door at 3 am. (town had a population of 900 people, his house was 2 blocks away) I saw her at the door and pretended to be asleep.

i felt SO fucking stupid not having sex with her, but it passed and one day i was driving back from a meeting with my friend and I told him about it. Ill tell you what, the look of respect he gave me was a great thing.. After all it was lust, no feeling involved and life is to short to stick your dick in everything that comes your way.. IMO

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Originally Posted by illnillinois

After all it was lust, no feeling involved and life is to short to stick your dick in everything that comes your way.. IMO

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yea like iunno thats kinda how i felt... like i think that i felt she deserved someone that wasnt just going to be a one night stand... i donno it wasnt like i JUST wanted to have sex with her you know... i respect her more than that? like i think shes attractive but also a really nice girl.

respect for a lady comes before your penis urges.. lol. good job :)

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Originally Posted by Canadian_Cron

yea like iunno thats kinda how i felt... like i think that i felt she deserved someone that wasnt just going to be a one night stand... i donno it wasnt like i JUST wanted to have sex with her you know... i respect her more than that? like i think shes attractive but also a really nice girl.

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How old are you? How many girls have you been with?

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Originally Posted by illnillinois

I had a chance to hit one of the hottest girls i had ever seen, she was a co-worker/friends sister and she was in town visiting him, and she said she wanted to hang out with me and drink. I was nervous and didn't go over. She showed up in the sexy boy short panties and halter top at my door at 3 am. (town had a population of 900 people, his house was 2 blocks away) I saw her at the door and pretended to be asleep.

i felt SO fucking stupid not having sex with her, but it passed and one day i was driving back from a meeting with my friend and I told him about it. Ill tell you what, the look of respect he gave me was a great thing.. After all it was lust, no feeling involved and life is to short to stick your dick in everything that comes your way.. IMO

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And this proves you're not a man. You blew a very good thing. It's not often that a girl just shows up at your door ready to blow.

No shit man! U should have hit that shit! If a chick obviously wants to fuck, why not go for it! After all...that opportunity doesn't come around too often. ;-)

That's mighty respectful of you Chron. Good on you!

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Originally Posted by FakeBoobsRule

How old are you? How many girls have you been with?

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im 19, ive been with 4 girls y?