returning the favor?

well heres my story, ive been dating this girl for about a month know and i absolutely adore her especially more than just sexual reasons! but heres the problem
i have gone down on her multiple times and its been great for her
the thing is she doesnt return the favor! not once in the entire time of dating has she..
im not trying to be an asshole but damn i dont wanna spend my entire relationship with her between her legs and not see a single bj!
how the hell can i tell her that shes giving me the blue balls and not be a complete asshole about it?!?!

Just ask her, kindly, when you guys are playing around, just wink and ask.

That or, she's had a horrible experience with BJ's, which I doubt.

You got to learn to talk about every facet of BOTH of yours desires, needs, wants. Many times if the talking doesnt begin, it wont last long. Same as when you and her have some time together, when the talking stops, usually something is wrong.

joke around about it, say.. oh now its your turn! ;). see her reaction thats all there is to it :)

"Do on to others as you would wish done on to you"

Id just stop. It is possible she just doesnt like the male member in her mouth, or she is just selfish and doesnt think about what you want.

jsut ask. ive learned that the more open about what you want about sex and things having to do with sex the better its goign to be. dont feel like its wrong for you to ask i mean its only fair

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Hell yeah, be a man and stand up for yourself and ask for one. Who cares? If shes doesn't want to..dump her.

well--just cuz shes holdin out on a bj doesnt mean you gotta dump her [if you truly care for the chick]


i mean you say you adore her for reasons beyond that of sexual attraction..so is it really that important that you getta bj from her, i mean hey at least your hittin it

I would its fucked up he went down on her so many times and she didn't return the favor.