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So, I am new at the whole "relationship" sort of thing. Not really a relationship, but I don't know what else to call it.
Anyway, I made out with a guy last weekend, and it was fairly serious and will most likely happen again.. So what is a "natural" sort of chain of events that will happen?
Ie.
1. Making out
2. blow job
3. sex
?
Man, I feel like such a child posting this, but I am curious.
a lil bit of advice from an old dog
if you like the person and would like to enjoy them the way they are
dont fuck or suck or do anything like that
if you do things will change quick
liek as soon as his nut dries up things will be different
usually for the worse
kiss and hug and be sweet and thats it
he will act better if he dont fuck
if your just horny than handle it
but if you want good feelings dont fuck
If there's no expressed and mutually agreed upon commitment then there's no relationship and anything is fair game. Keep that in mind...
As for the natrual progression of things....personally I don't go down first, just because I never wanted to be that BJ chick or whatever....If you're wanting a relationship, hold off on the sex until you're sure there will be a relationship...if you don't care either way, then just go for it....I always thought that oral was just foreplay anyway (even if the guy cums...still just an appetizer)....so I'd say:
1. Making out
2. Foreplay (all the oral ya'll can stand)
3. Sex till the 4 walls come down and a bird flies over and shits in the bed
? <----this is the part that ya'll need to figure out BEFORE the sex so that there won't be any misunderstandings or hurt feelings....
good luck!!
I pretty much agree with the above comments, don't rush into sex at all, i.e oral, hands, penetration. Stick with kissing and honestly, be a cock tease. Guys love it, but don't be a slut. Sex complicates things, instantly. You're going to feel attached and on an emotional roller coaster so unless you're completely ready for that sort of thing, take it extremely slow. If he likes you enough, he'll stay. If he doesn't, he's not worth your time or energy.
This is how I do it;
Flirting,
kiss kiss,
make-out,
touchy feely,
fingers/hands,
kiss kiss all over,
oral sexxorz,
more kiss kiss all over,
striiikeeee.
whatever you both feel is right to do at the moment. itd be weird to plan these kinds of moments out, its one of those things you dont plan.. unless you need a condom. the rest of it is up to the chemistry between you two.
hmmm....well i guess that depends on u and the guy, and how bad u both wanna get down and do the damn thing.
A.how old r u?
B. r u athletic/active
C.whats for dinner..??
shit i got me a nice plate of nachos. sorry im not more help :stoned:
i do tend to get into a pattern when ive been with the same guy. the sex part is always switched up but the forplay tends to always go the same way. i need to change that! I like unexpected sexual things but anways ..... with my last bf it was always cuddling, he'd finger me, we'd kiss, id go down on him, then we'd have sex.
with my new guy its always kissing, hands, he gives me oral !!!!! love itttt i've never gotten it a lot until lately <3 lol, then ill go down on him, then we'll have sex.
just do whatever feels right and comes natural to you. and remeber to wrap ur lump b4 u hump!
and ^^ im jealous id KILL for some nachos mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! i think thats wut im about to get for lunch today.