caught by my dad, but want to tell him the truth... without getting in much trouble.

My dad found some weed that accidently fell in water and was no good, so i threw it in his toilet... he found it, and he wasn't happy, at all. So he told me that he found a plant in his toilet ( he knows it's weed ) and that he wants to have a SERIOUS talk with me. I'm scared, because i don't wanna be caught. I have a ounce in my room, and i would hate to lie to him that i don't have more weed. I want to tell my parents that i do smoke weed, without having them ruining my life by grounding me and basically punishing me for trying to relax.

Please help Me! I have only 1 hour before i "Have a serious talk" with them.

What should i say?

by the way, i know it was dumb of me to leave the bad weed in the toilet without flushing. But i was stoned, and forgot

please help me!
i only have 10 minutes

What are your options?

i could tell him that i do smoke.
i could lie to him, but he'll know i'm lying... and i hate to lie


those are the basic options, i don't want to lie.

BTW, i'm 14... so i'm a young toker. :( I don't toke much, like 3x a week or so... and i don't "drop out" of school or not do my homework to smoke.

Build up a solid argument. Gather pro and against facts and present them to your parents. Explain to them about the reality of marijuana. It's not the devil everyone makes it out to be, just be calm man. Good luck, let me know how it goes. Peace.

hmm
good idea
Maybe he could try it with me? like i could smoke with him...

If he's angry with you, I wouldn't try asking him to smoke with you, if you are able to convince him to see marijuana in a different light, you might just be pushing your lucky by asking him to toke. Good luck

Eh, no man. Don't do that. That sort of takes it to another lvl IMO. Are they/have they been users of cannabis at one point in time or another?

my dad was in a punk rock band ... he was in a band with the guitar player of the police i belive it was. But anyhow, i belive he did smoke weed. He told me how he tried " dxm" ( cough medicine ) and he threw up and got very sick, so i've bet he tried weed. But i don't really know how to start the conversation in the "serious talk"...

my mom on the other hand, smoked ciggerates for 2-3 years ... and she then quit before having children. I imagine that she has tried weed before, but i'm not excactly sure. she's kind of a person who belives what people "smarter" than her tell her. People like police officers etc. who are like " smoke a joint, and the next day you'll be homeless"...

so this is a tough cituation