Are there any other women with this problem?Or just me?

Ok so i read on here about women enjoying anal and other courses and really getting off on it. I don't know if it's just me but i'd like some feedback from other women (men too if ya want).I have a really hard time orgasming from intercourse (of any kind) alone.I've tried all different sorts of positions.The only time I've been able to is with my current b/f about a year ago.It happened 4 different times,but hasn't happened since.It's not him and I've been with lotsa different partners,so I don't understand this.Am I just made wrong?Any insight would be nice,because it always makes the guy feel like they're doing something wrong and they're not....I know it's me.:(

Naw it isn't just you... pretty common to need some clitoral stimulation to get the job done... I'm not shy, I have no particular problem just reaching on down and lending myself a hand. haha. Drrtyhot. In fact my man gets all sorts of hot and bothered watching and it's a great way to reach that point where you and your partner can climax simultaneously- that rocks!
The only thing that sucks is if the dude rocks a beer gut. Makes things tricky. You've practically got to hold Da Belly aside with the other hand, or have him lean back pretty upright... and I like big dudes... :D

Alot of women aren't able to achieve an orgasm. I think it's a pretty normal thing. You have to feel completely comfortable with yourself and your partner. It wouldn't hurt if you "take some alone time" by yourself either. You can figure out what you like and then be able to tell or show him. I've found that it's easier for me if I'm on top and in control. Luckily I rarely have a problem getting one:)

Hope it works out for you;)

I have only had an orgasim from penetration once! And that was after some harddddd fucking in the same spot for awhile -- we were trying our hardest so I could have one. -- But I get orgasims super easy from my loved clit, which is great because i love touching myself infront of my bf for some reason and i always cum from that also i love wen hes fucking me with a hand on it, its awsome.

also i've heard its pretty common to not be able to so dont feel abnormal. just keep trying!

I think it's hot when a girl touches herself when we're bumping uglies haha. Some guys, I hear, have a problem with it tho, because it emasculates them... whatever!

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Originally Posted by Hardcore Newbie

I think it's hot when a girl touches herself when we're bumping uglies haha. Some guys, I hear, have a problem with it tho, because it emasculates them... whatever!

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never heard that one before but it makes sence. my man lovesss it. whats not hot about a girl getting horny as hell and reaching orgasim? idk hot to me. lol hmm possible thread question

I just wanna throw this out.

From personal experience, I've found many women are almost AFRAID to orgasm fully. I assure you this problem can be somewhat easily fixed, however you DO need to be fully comfortable and emotionally available when the time cums;)

PS: even TYPING about touching yourself is hot, so dont worry!:thumbsup:

Do any women her agree with my theory that alot of an orgasm for a woman is mental and emotional?

It's pretty common, sweetie. The fact that you can masturbate to orgasm is good! When the hubby and I "get it on", I frequently "prime the pump" before hand. I take a nice warm bath and masturbate to climax. (The hubby is going to be 66 this year, so he has slowed down a bit- me?, I'm the "Energizer Bunny".) I take a few minutes to settle down and then jump into bed with an ultra-sensitive clit. ( I hope I'm not grossing you gals out too much with my tales of "senior sex"! It does happen, ya know! Check out Yahoo Health News- had an article about it just today.) Climax is a habit- keep doing it and your body learns it. Keep trying, and may all your orgasms be multiple! - Granny:hippy:

its not just you I know alot of girls who like to use toys or play with them selves durring sex, I like when a girl is like rub me here while you fuk me or stick you finger here while u fuk me or anything along those lines I like.but it not unusual at allin fact I buy all kinds of things to make girls confertable or give them pleasure.

foreplay foreplay foreplay and more foreplay. 20 minutes or more of clitoral stimulation prior to intercourse.
Comfort and self confidence help as well.
My wife gets off best when on top as she can control what she needs to control.
Don't let it get you down. If the guy is patient he will work with you to achieve the big O.