Selfhealing and healing others with Energie(thoughts)

hey

lately I have been keeping myself occupied with trying to heal people, mainly friends who also believe in healing with energies
I believe that this is vital in making it work ... I don't think I could "heal" a sceptic person
anyways, I found out about this ability when I was quite young actually
when I had a headache, I would place my hand on my head and turn my attention to the warmth that my hand was emitting, and trying to center the pain to 1 point in my head and trying to just suck it out with my hand
just focussing on those thoughts and this worked. I did not really know anything about healing like that I just did what I thought was right and could or would work :)
another occasion was when a friend told me he had sooo much energie that he needed to loose some.
so I told him that I might know a trick that could help him.
I thought that I could use that same trick on him, but with other purposes ofcorse this time.
I placed both my hands on his chest and sat infront of him,
closed my eyes for better focus and he did so too.
I told him to focus on the warmth of my hands and think about sending energy flows to my hands and I would take them away,
problem is that I often harm myself with these things.
I almost past out because of this enormous energie just boosting like hell into my body.
and that whole night I was so incredibly tense, grinding my teeth , muscles cramping, those kind of things. and this week I tried to help a friend of mine with a headache, but not just a headache, since a month or so he has been having Cluster headaches
very very badly, and normally they took about 20 minutes and then go away
but this time they stayed very long , and he remembered me telling him about my healing.
and he asked me to help him, I was a bit affraid to do this, cause of what it might do to me.
but I thought, if I can ease his pain i`ll be glad to help.
so I put my hand on the place where I asked him to try and center the pain,
focus on the warmth of my hand and just think about sending out the pain.
while he was doing this, I pulled it out and every now and then I tried to put in good energie, soothing energie to make him at ease.
it was very intense for me to perform cause every now and then I got huge lightheadedness, which almost made me fall on the ground.
but it helped him, the pain was not completely gone, but he was more at ease and was better able to deal with the pain. I could notice this very well because before he did not say a word.
and after this he talked and talked and talked like always :D
but I needed a few hours to get back my own energie, cause I was pretty worn out because of that, and also needed to loose his negative energie from the pain.
this is quite a long story of some of my experiences with this
and I really wonder if other people can do this too or have been healed like this,or that can tell me more about this, ways that I can spare myself a bit more :D
and i`m looking for good books or website to do some reading, so I can improve my skill in this

Greets
sikilmisilyas

thats, something you dont hear every day

man 3 posts and he was banned! lol wutd he do?

you should look into reiki. you would probably do great with it, also reconnections.

yea lol how do you get banned in 3 posts

Yeah, you can change the way you seem to feel if you think about it. If you get a papercut and keep thinking about how much it hurts, you're going to report feeling a lot more pain than if you thought about something else. If you're full of energy and start thinking about relaxing thoughts, you might lose some of your energy. That's not supernatural. That's just your thoughts in your head.

Besides, what do you mean by "energy"? Can you actually define it? Because I hear it a lot in spiritualist new-age mumbo-jumbo as a buzzword, but no one seems to be able to tell us what it means. It seems to refer to some invisible force field that nobody can detect with any instrumentation of any kind, but they know it's there because they can "feel" it. (Except, of course, when their ability to feel anything is scientifically tested by third grade girls... JAMA -- A Close Look at Therapeutic Touch, April 1, 1998, Rosa et al. 279 (13): 1005 )

Energy is something that can be converted into matter and something matter can be converted to. It can be measured with observational devices, and its movement can be explained by mathematical laws. The spiritualists' energy, the kind that doesn't equal mc², that energy doesn't exist. We have brains, with physical energy in it, but fundamentally that energy is no different from the kind that's flowing through the power lines. It has no thought, it has no personality, and it has no magical superpowers. It's just moving around influencing the behavior of the particles it encounters.