Im always just the friend...

so i met this new girl about 2 weeks ago, shes really chill and we hung out for the day. i found she had a bf, but still wants to hang with me this weekend (she lives 3 hours away). she called me tonight and we talked, some on how her bf is being stupid and almost pushing sex on her. (theyve been together for about a monnth and a half now). shes not comfortable doing it yet, and as i told her, its a big emotial change and could end up being a problem. i told her not to let him make the decisions for her and to stand up for herself. she agreed to this, and said thanks, we talked about other stuff, and hanging out this sunday. this seems to happen when i start to like a girl, its almost like we just become friends, and i give advice all the time. (apparantly good advice)
idk what to do, i really wanna be more than friends with her

If you want to be more than just friends, let her know. Guess what? Unless given some other agenda, most instances where you just talk to a girl and give her advice are going to end up in friendship!


Do you want to bang the people that give you life advice? I don't see Dr. Phil starring in many porn flicks, so I would assume NO.

Tell her exactly how you feel.

i just met her like 2-3 weeks ago though, so im not sure if i should say that yet

why wait, the longer you wait the more awkward it will be, and then you'll never end up doing it

always happens to me, i wait wayy too long

i saw dr phil in a porno once, it was called


who i am doing today is who i want to do because i did her mom yesterday

JetFoi34, i see what you mean, but should i see where her current relationship goes? im thinking they might break up soon. also, is it cool to keep giving her good advice, or is that just helping me take the road to just friendship

If you are willing to roll the dice, just give her a kiss.

It's high-risk, high-reward. But I fear that if you don't step up to the plate, you are heading into that friend-zone.

i cant just like, bam, give her a kiss, she has a bf and ill respect that. but idk, if we hang out at the fair this week, maybe when we go to leave i might just be liike "thanks for spending the night with me", and give one on the cheek

Man, I like how thcbong man thinks.

Dont go for the cheek kiss, you kiss your grandma on the cheek, most girls like guys with confidence. But, I would wait till she is singal, befor you make any moves