How many of you have one or several of those? Are any of them ex's? Have you gotten somewhat attatched even though you know your not supposed to or vice versa?
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How many of you have one or several of those? Are any of them ex's? Have you gotten somewhat attatched even though you know your not supposed to or vice versa?
I had two fwb's at the end of last semester around May. It was the first time someone wanted me just for sex which worked out well cause thats all I wanted from one. The other one I might still be seeing this coming semester, but who knows?
Good stuff...
I had a friend with benefits, then I used the whole attachment thing to get her over on a daily basis but that backfired. Love is not something to play with. If I hadn't been so selfish, she might still be interested too.
I had one. It might not have been such a good idea...since it was a friend's ex, but eh...it was nice while it lasted. Attachment did become an issue, which sucks, because then it leads to hurt :[
Damn I guess I'm lucky cause mine were nsa...
i had one at the begining of this summer....
she lives down the street from me and a lot of times i would be skating/smoking/doing somethin outside and she would drive by, stop, and end up in my room like an hour later....
we would also call each other just to "hang out"....
i started getting attached to her and she was too.....
we both decided that it wasnt what we wanted and shit tho...
so now we are just friends..
It's crazy how attachment puts a damper on things like recreational sex. I became attached because I wanted it all the time and somehow that ruined things. You're all like, "I thought you wanted to make love?"Quote:
Originally Posted by Miss Ashley
I guess that's the guys point of view though?
ive had a few in the recent history, i like to becuz you get some of the benefits of relationship without the relationship, but in most instances u or they catch feelings and once someone catches those and get attached it gets hard to deal with
especially if it's with an ex, someone always gets hurt with those. :sadcryingQuote:
Originally Posted by ganjzilla
I was lucky enough to get a friend's ex! I don't get laid enough...