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And you are pretty much happy and in love.
Do you wonder what it's like to be with someone else? Like you see someone on the street, and sorta wonder hmmm...that person is cute, I wonder what it'll be like to go out with them on a date? Not acting upon it at all....
those are bad thoughts. a power drill will rid your head of such demons.
I have been with my husband a long time. Long enough that I've pondered that very question.
My conclusion is the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. It just looks greener from where your standing. Once you jump that fence, you will find it needs watered and mowed and fertilized just as much, and quite possibly more, than the lawn you've just abandoned. I say more because it takes a while to develop a trusting relationship. You'd have to start that all over again. Not an easy task. I know it's very simple terms, but hey I'm a stoner. Sometimes I need simple terms!
There are obvious deal breakers, but just weigh your options very carefully. Once you cross that line, you may not be able to get back.
Just my personal experience, and my :twocents::thumbsup:
yeah i'd say so... :p (as in am i happy)
Nope, never. In fact, I rarely even find other guys attractive. I am really happy in my relationship. Sure it's not all happy and great all the time, we have our issues, as we all do-but we always know we can work through anything.Quote:
Originally Posted by thcbongman
I feel the longer we have been together the easier it is to work through things. The longer we are together the easier and better our relationship gets.
I look at other people and appreciate my boyfriend more, as I know he is a great guy and I am very very grateful for him.
Its like being in a reastraunt and you order a hamburger. Well there is nothing wrong with admiring another mans steak, Just remember what you ordered.
As for me I have learned this the hard way, I have screwed up several times in my marriage and it almost cost me the woman I love. Never again will this happen, You cant act on your emotions if you have been in a long relationship let alone a marriage. Im now a one woman kind of guy.
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I am lucky enough to have found the perfect woman for me.
Why would I want to screw that up?
I consider myself happy and in love with my husband. But I also know that those thoughts do occur fairly naturally. Curious, imaginative minds work that way, and it doesn't necessarily mean that those thoughts have to be acted upon.
word, just because u have thoughts doesnt mean u will act upon them. i hate when bible beaters tell me thinking about sinning is the same as actually sinning.Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
It's completely natural to wonder about those kind of things bongman. No worries, part of being a human.