I just don't know anymore...

Okay. Me (I'm 20) and my boyfriend (he's 18) have been dating since 01-01-07. We fought within our first two weeks of dating. I mean we fight over dumb things, but I try not to fight. Shit happens. But the thing is that he's really clingy. I don't really have a day where I don't see him because he gets depressed and it stresses me out. He's really great, don't get me wrong... but he's so clingy and attached that it's too much for me. I had a hard time getting over this one guy I had a thing for... and that just didn't work out. I really, really liked him and it scared him away. I really never thought that this would happen to ME, but it's happening.

Another thing... I do a LOT for him. A LOT. As in we smoke everyday MOSTLY because of me. Cigarettes? Yeah, me too. He does things for me, but he acts like I do shit for him. I just don't get it anymore.

Basically... this was one of those times where you kinda wish things didn't happen in the first place. I just... don't think we're a good couple. We fight a LOT, he basically can't stand my friends (even though he only met a few and doesn't like my other friends no reason...), he's talking about moving in/gettin MARRIED and I still don't want to move out of my house yet. I want to be open and honest with him, but he gets depressed and angry really easily. What would be the best way to just.... be honest about how I feel about this dead-still relationship?

I feel like utter crap. As much as I really, REALLY do not want to say this.... I think we were better as friends, and that's that. I just don't... love him. I can't keep lying to myself or him everyday because things will only get worse... =[ hfkjahdfkdhj:(

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Originally Posted by Burnt_Toast

Be honest and tell him straight. Dont force yourself to be in a relationship you dont want to be in.

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I'm just... afraid to talk to him. The last time I tried to be honest... he threatened to shoot himself. He was calling and calling and calling, and threatened to kill himself. I can't deal with it...

"Don't wait until the river runs dry"

start imagining life without him and slowly start letting him go. he'll be okay, i hope.. lol

It's such a bad situation... =[

Dude that sounds like a really bad relationship yopu should not be in. When he says he wants to kill himself you need to tell him he needs to get help or get him help.

the longer you wait the harder it will be. Do you think he'd really kill himself, or is he just saying it for attention? If you think he really will than tell him you'll call the cops to go to his house to stop him.

My best friend is exactly like your boyfriend and his ex-gf is exactly like you. This won't end well, I'm tellin you right now. But take comfort in knowing that while you'll have gotten over him within a month, he'll probably still need you a year from now. It's just the way it's going to be, and for both of your sakes once you pass the point of breaking up, seeing him is going to make him completely crazy. Haha it's funny, I'm like an expert on your exact situation as I've been watching my best friend live it for a year now