condom worries

im a virgin to start out with. Im 16, and have a gf, we started to have sex today and i put on the condom and everything went away, EVERYTHING, I was rdy to go untill I pulled out the condom and put it on. lol im kinda glad it happend now cuz my mom came home 10 mins later.. we were just getting dressed as she walked threw the door so that went well. but It worries the shit out of me, the other day I was fingering her and she orgasmed, we started to have sex then and i put the condom on and same thing. I lost the erection twice now and I have no idea how to fix it, anyone have any ideas? i feel like a loser posting this...

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i have no idea

Viagra, should be a few dealers who sell it, its not just for old people lol makes your sex life a whole lot better!!.

Well another option for you could be to keep playing with it or maybe as soon as you get an erection to just use is straight away instead of wait while you finger her etc..

You're not a loser. You're just having performance anxiety. Applying a condom has a way of bringing that on.

Maybe try and proceed to manual stimulation of both you and her before you try intercourse again or stop to put a condom on. Applying a condom breaks the spontaneity, it's true. You're too young for Viagra.

Also if you're young and this is your first time and you're worried about being walked in on, try and find someplace private where you're going to have plenty of time and no interruptions. That won't be easy, but if you can relax and not have to worry about rushing and have plenty of time for foreplay, you'll have a more stable erection.

damn fast response. I think bird girl got it.... no way in hell im taking viagra... lol that would cause more probs then anything. thanks for the replys tho. ill post something within the next few days...

Let us know. And try and take your time. Rushing is the worst thing in the world for sex!

Hell yeah son! Get a lil' piece! :thumbsup:

lol excellent comment cp, We've been wanting to have sex for a few months now... we never have any alone time more then a few hours, and we dont want to do it in the truck... damn it gets hot fast in the truck lol

Unwrap it so it's easy to get to.......less down time. Try the extra thins also.....more sensation once it's on.:thumbsup:

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

first, what she said, anxiety issues... i had the same problem (although alot of it was me drinking too, but i hadn't had much... just a few drinks out of a 20 year old bottle of wine... i wasn't drunk or anything... but i'm sure that also contributed..)

still tho, i know it caused alot of problems.......

next condoms suck =/ damn good idea but they just suck lol... i don't think anyon'es ever going to be able to invent a condom that's suitable to a man...

"you ever looked at your dick after taking a condom off?" "he just looks at you like... IT WAS HORRIBLE IN THERE! I COULDN'T BREATHE!!!" "and everyone knows there's two sides to a condom... that wonderful, lubed side that feels so good... that's for the ladies then there's that dry, sand paper side...." (not an exact quote but pretty much lol... it's from dave attel's insomniac tour)