new and have a dilemma...

yo everyone, new to posting but have been reading threads for a long time now, been smoker for almost a year and a half. hope to post pretty often if i can. also, i have a dilemma on my hands and was wonderin if anyone could thro me sum advice. so yea here it goes, after meeting and talking to this girl for about 4 months or so, i really liked her and she knew it and she really liked me and i knew it, well we hung out one night, kissed and stuff but that was it, then the next day she gets drunk and goes out and screws some random guy. i dont hear from her for a week and a half, then finally she tells me what happened. now she still seems to me to be a nice girl, an innocent type ya kno? im just wondering if i should still keep talkin to her/give her another chance? any thoughts? would def appreciate it and again hello all fellow stoners

OK, something's up with her if she gets drunk and screws random guys. You realize that, right? Obviously, you didn't have any sort of claim on her or pre-existing relationship so she was free to do what she wanted, even after a night of hanging out and kissing. But she doesn't sound particularly "innocent" or particularly healthy, ya know? Just something to consider.

Dude, that would make me mad.. like you're talking to her and putting in tis much effort and then she goes off and screws a random dude and tells you about it? Seriously.. show her no mercy.. and by that.. tell her you dont approve and want nothing to do with her.. maybe friends... Then she'll beg for you to be all in her.. If that doesnt work.. WHO CARES.. shes a bitch :]

you werent in a relationship to start so you cant be mad, she's single and fucked someone, who cares, it's not about giving her a 2nd chance cause there wasnt even a first, so if you like her, keep going with it..........

Don't in any way judge her for this....no harm in screwing a random guy if that's what she wants....and, no relationship, no crime.

no relationship, no crime, but if she really liked you, she would have got drunk and screwed you. it sounds like you really weren't on her mind at all. fooling around might not mean anything to her, she could do it just for fun.

sex with random people is dangerous and do you really want to be with a girl that does that? that's how stds get spread, hope she used protection. this situation is really only your call. but i'd tell her to fuck off...

Well I can't judge anyone I don't know, but as a female, 28, I can say I've made "mistakes." I can't say anyone I know (female) would say they've NEVER slept with someone and regretted it. If so, I'd say that is a lucky person, lol. Do U think it was a mistake, or something she does all the time? I guess it really boils down to what U think, because it really isn't anyone else's business.

thanks for the help guys and gals :stoned: