Here's a good one, advice?

Ok, for like the last year or so I've been talking to this girl on/off though we've never dated, and when I say on/off, I mean it. We'll talk and be best of friends, hang out, everything, then we'll get in an argument and not talk for like 4-6 months. Then she IMs me again, she always starts the talking again. And me being me, I can't stop it. I just go with it... This has happened 4 times already.

We got in an argument in Dec, I drunk called her on New Years Eve, haven't talked since.
She IMed me earlier tonight.

She dates guys that treat her like shit and it always ends up the same. And I know if we were to actually start a relationship I would treat her amazingly. I really think I could have THOSE kinds of feelings for her. I've never had these feelings.

My question is, do girls push away the guys they know will actually care for them on purpose? Or is this girl just a super bitch? Would the fact that every time I break ties and she jump starts the friendship again mean she has feelings in there deep down?

Idk if this is really asking for advice, or if it's a rant...:confused::confused:

That is a hard one.. LOL
But really, I dont understand why she dosent talk to you for 6 months for no reason..My question to you is why you let it go for so long..if you like her you wouldnt let it go 6 months...maybe a few weeks...but 6 months! Honestly, she was probably thinking of you and im'ed just to see what was up with you..if you want her..this time make an effort.

She's going through changes, just like you. Let her be in control.