damn girls!

Theres this one girl that i liked and asked out a few times. She seemed really nice and would make it seem like she wanted me to keep asking her out. She would say shit like......well its hard cause im really busy right now, but i dont know....we'll see (in a cheery way). I pretty much now think she is just fuckin with my head. Other people that know her say that she likes me and thats why she would do that. We even would talk on the phone. if i called her and she didnt answer, she would call back most of the time and apologize (sp?) for not answering. when i would be around her, she would smile at me and say or do stupid things that would make me laugh. But guess what, i found out last night from someone that she has a boyfriend that proposed to her on christmas eve and she said no. Now they have a bad relationship and she was pretty much spilling her heart out to this certain "role model" that i heard it from. She also said she was breaking up with him. Im kinda pissed and depressed because she made it clear to me that she didnt have a boyfriend when i was asking her out. Now i know she lied to me and that i cant trust her. What if we started dating because she is now single and will let me know that she wants to go out. Whats going to stop her from telling some other guy that she isnt seeing anyone when we are dating? So yeah im feeling kinda let down right now. At least i learned something from this bad experience. So yeah im not going to talk to her like i used to at all (im around her about 3-4 days a week). Ill just say hi but never really start a conversation. Eventually she will say somethin to me and then ill just fuckin let out my feelings about how she lied to me and shit. Not like im hurt or anything, but how i dont give a fuck. To the guys, try to learn from this experience and hopefully this doesnt happen to you. Im tryin not to be upset, but have the fuck her attitude.

that sucks dude, sry. i was really close with this girl for like a year, and we dated kinda like off and on for a while, but then i kinda lost interest. about a month after i kinda drifted away from her she tells me that she got raped by her best friends boyfreind. so im all there helping her through it and stuff when i begin to think that maybe she wanst actually raped. now im about 99.9999999999% certian that she got fucked by that dude, regretted it becuase it was her bestfriends boyfriend, so claimed rape to get the burden off her shoulders while getting free morning after pills, hiv precention pills, treatment for any possible std that she coulda gotten, and all that shit. not to mention, it got me back into her life for like 2 months before i figured all this shit out. so i basically jsut stopped talking to her. now she is a really really big slut, and everyone knows that, just proving that she was fucking lying about the rape thing. man that pisses me off so bad. every once in a while she calls, or sends a text message, but i ignore her bacuse i dont wanna deal with her bullshit. i never told her that i dont believe her, but she knows, because noone that she has told believes her, not even the detective that gets paid to figure out if she is lying, so yea. if hope she gets pregnant and has to drop out of school like her mom so that she stops being a slut.

wow that was kinda harsh, but i think u would be a little pissed too if u were flat out lied to in part in order to rope you back into her life. fuck that shit.

double posting sucks, sry, but one of the worst things about it is that when she and i were really close, she told me that she was a virgin, which i found out was not only false, but not even close to being true, she fucked her X the first night she knew him. i gald i never stuck it in that void...

yeah. she told me that she was a virgin too. i wonder if she is lying to me about anything else. probably. i dont really want to talk to her to find out anything else. like rave said, fuck that shit. i hate the way when you like a girl, she seems like she is the only girl you will ever like. when i think about how i felt about other girls just like that, they are nothing to me now. oh well, hopefully soon this girl will be just a bitch to me that i dont give a fuck about....im goin 2 get drunk, fuck it.

man if u care about it this much adn shes not your gf.. remember, shes not your gf!! give her some space is all man, shell come around
if she likes you, givin her space will only make her want u more

Dude No Man can EVER EVER EVRER Understand a woman. A few months ago, I got into a friendly realtionship with this girl she had an ass of a BF. So like when he was working she would call me up and we would hang out. Go to mall/movies. I would listen to her on how much of an ass her BF is. I was pretty much a good guy with this girl. I really thought she was really cool friend. Well anyway they broke up when she moved to a new town not to far away from me. Again I told her that she will eventually meet Mr. Right and blah blah blah. I wasnt going to ask her our immedatiely after she broke up with this guy. Wouldnt be good timing. Well anyway when she moved to this new town we didnt really hang out as much as we did before. She wouldnt return my calls blah blah blah. She got new cell phone # and on rare events I talk to her online which are pretty much 5 min conversations. So that is my example of how woman manipulate us poor nice guys. The saying is SO true. "Nice Guys Finish Last"

So all the girls on this board. Read the above story and try to disect why this girl totally ignores me now. I thought we were good friends and now we havent really spoken in like 6 months :confused: :mad:

why im mad is because she has lead me on to thinkin she likes me for like the past 2 months...........damn i dont know. i thought i knew her, but i guess i dont. i feel kinda like all i am to her is a puppet she can fuck with.....yeah narkotic. if she does like me, then she'll say somethin and i dont know what to do from there. if i should get mad about it, or not. oh well. life fuckin sucks.

Bottom line, dudes...if you can't trust her, for whatever reason, then it is probably not the best thing to get into, you know.

Trust is about 85% of any releationship...the rest is about compatibility.

I left my wife because I couldn't trust her anymore - she lied to me when I gave her a chance to tell me the truth.

If you aint got trust...you aint got nothing...
JMHO