Help me. please

i have known this chick for a while now, and i have watched her make mistake after mistake with relationships. she just got over a realy bad brake up, and i want to ask her out. i know this sounds like junior high B.S., but she's a good freind and i don't want to mess that up. sometimes she'll be looking at me like with thoughs eyes that say "get your ass on this bed NOW".

Dont do it!
It is just going to fuck up your heart.

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Originally Posted by crunkjuice

walk by her in school, and like, touch her ass or something when you walk by (make it look like an accident). and then say "OH SHIT! im sorry didnt mean to do that." and if she sais "its alright." then smack her ass as hard as you can and say "it better be." :pimp:

and if she gets annoyed at you touchin her butt then she doesnt wanna do you. haha :wtf:

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i graduated in 98, but that just might work.

The only real way to ask a girl out is to actually do it. Take her on a nice date. Try and open up with her, and ask her how she feels about you. Make sure you don't put any pressure on her. Take things slow and see what happens.

This is going to sound harsh, but how do you know she wont make the same relationship mistakes with you? Some people just aren't good at relationships, and I think that more often than not its because they have unresolved personal issues that they need to address while they're single. Is it worth being in a perhaps short lived relationship with her if it means sacrificing what you have now? I'm not telling you not to do it, but be careful.