I would like to know your views and experiences with a 3sum.?? And all so what do you think about having a 3sum while you are in a serious relationship?? Either Male-Female-Female or Female-Male-Male ....whats your thoughts on the subject!!
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I would like to know your views and experiences with a 3sum.?? And all so what do you think about having a 3sum while you are in a serious relationship?? Either Male-Female-Female or Female-Male-Male ....whats your thoughts on the subject!!
No, NEVER have a 3-some in a serious relationship. The chances of something GOOD coming out of that is sooooo slim. That can ruin a whole releationship. In every magazine ive read, playboy, cosmopolitain, and countless sex books I have it tells the readers not to do it. It may be hot but you'd be surprised all the things that can go wrong.
Leave the 3-somes to the porn stars.
I had a brief threesome with my boyfriend and his friend before we started dating. I didn't know he liked me so much and wanted to date, so I was down. However, like 15 minutes into it, he just left the room and left me with his friend, who was cute so we kept going, then like another 15 minutes later he came back in and started freaking out at his friend, who left. And after we started dating, every time he was mad he brought that up and called me a slut. So I don't recommend them.
Ok so basically its a no go for serious relationships. Here is my problem i've done it lots time before but not really in a serious relationship and i do think its really hot and i like doing 3sum's. My girlfreind knows that i like them so she brought it up a few weeks back and asked me what i thought about it and asked if i had anyone in mind.oh and this is a Male-female -female. Being honest i told her how i felt and mentioned someone. Ok everything was kool before she left for NY and she's gonna be there for 3 weeks. The first few days everything was good until one night she called me crying and saying the only reason i wanted to have a 3sum was because i wanted to screw some other chick. Which wasnt true but it seems like one of her co-workers hammered it in her head that, that was the reason why i wanted to. So i dont even know she was the one who asked i just answered and being honest i told her the truth. But i guess it was a trick question.
yeah, women never wanna be told the truth.. gotta get used to thta now... (and i don't care what you women say, you tel us to tell you the truth, then we do and you freak the fuck out) certain things are just better left in the dark/lied about....
I've had plenty of menage a trois (and four, five, six), married and not married (take that in all meanings). Everyone is different. For me, it's best left for the single folk.....It didn't kill any relationship I've had, but come close.
:jointsmile: Bree
i guess you people never heard of swingers.me and my wife have had 4 somes and 6 somes ,you just have to set rules thats all.i think guys have alot harder time excepting it,if another man is getting it on with their spouse.either you love it or hate it.....as for me no regrets....
Oh yah thats the other thing i'll only do me and the gf with another chick. Say i'm selfish but thats the rule no exceptions..... we desided to talk it over when she got back so we'll see how that turns out. :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by escort31
too much work
but fun if you slow it down a bit
sounds better that it actually is though