To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
I was thinking about this today, If I had a daughter I really wouldn't want her to be around boys at all. Because I see the way it is with my friends and I now and it seems like she would be at a huge risk to be taken advantage of. However, If I had a son I wouldn't really care at all I would just try to make sure that he's safe and wraps it up. I just think that boys know how to take care of themselves better at this age. That's hypocritacle but that's how I feel.
Im 16 btw.
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
Well, first off, you've got some years before you should worry about all that. I hope. :)
I have both a son and a daughter. My son just turned 5. My daughter is 3. I have definitely given this topic some thought over the past few years. I think what you said about boys being able to take care of themselves better isn't all that accurate. It really depends on each individual. Not only that, but how they're raised, if they're taught RESPONSIBILITY, SELF RESPECT, so on and so forth. Shit, I've met some STUPID ass guys in my lifetime. It's a miracle that some of them even survived birth. I've met some really dumb females as well. Maybe in the 'physical' sense, a guy might be able to take care of himself with less effort. BUT, I've known quite a few females that didn't need strength to get by. They tend to use their heads a bit more, IMO. They can be extremely sneaky. Like cats. Anyhow, I AM very protective over BOTH of my children. I feel that they will both need some guidance...one just as much as the other. Boys and girls should be taught certain things, and informed about things beforehand. Then, the chances that they're going to encounter such situations can be slimmed down a bit. Remember the old Saturday morning commercials in between cartoons? (USA at least) "Knowledge is Power" or "Knowing is half the battle." lol. I know, corny... but it just seemed appropriate. Okay, it's fucking 8am and I don't know if this makes much sense to you. I should be asleep right now. :pimp:
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
I think at that age girls tend to think with their hearts and boys think with their dicks. Neither is at the point where they're thinking with their heads 100% of the time. I dont mean to offend anyone on here. I was that way a few years ago. This is also just a generalization and there are always exceptions.
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Originally Posted by napolitana869
I think at that age girls tend to think with their hearts and boys think with their dicks. Neither is at the point where they're thinking with their heads 100% of the time. I dont mean to offend anyone on here. I was that way a few years ago. This is also just a generalization and there are always exceptions.
I find this correct, but I always had a pretty easy time talking chicks into bed around 16. Females are extremely gullible at that age, and guys are just dumb.
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
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Originally Posted by napolitana869
I think at that age girls tend to think with their hearts and boys think with their dicks. Neither is at the point where they're thinking with their heads 100% of the time. I dont mean to offend anyone on here. I was that way a few years ago. This is also just a generalization and there are always exceptions.
Very very true, I'm 20 right now so I have just been through that fairly recently... Don't think you coulda hit the nail on the head any better... Unfortunately for some this can last until late 20's for guys... sometimes their whole life:wtf:
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
Well as for as sexually the point I was trying to get across is that guys know what they're in for when they try to get girls to have sex with them. But girls have these romantic ideas in their heads that just aren't true.
and ya onsecond i do have a few years i was just thinkin about it
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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams
I find this correct, but I always had a pretty easy time talking chicks into bed around 16. Females are extremely gullible at that age, and guys are just dumb.
Yeah, that was my experience too. I was a total horn dog back in high school and succeeded in luring quite a few young ladies into my bed (or car, or under the bleachers, or onto the golf course ;) , or....)
So now that I've got a 3yo little girl I'm terrified that when she's older she'll meet someone just like Daddy :eek: My plan is to just be honest with her and not make sex into some kind of forbidden fruit. You know, something that's all the more desireable because it's forbidden. I want her to have a healthy attitude about sex and not get filled with all those "romantic ideas" in her head. Of course, I'd rather she not have sex at all, but if she is I want her head in the right place. Not get taken advantage of some shithead who say's he "love's her", screws her, then leaves. If someones going to get taken advantage of let it be the guy.
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
This thread makes me glad I have a son instead of a daughter because I do think teenaged girls tend to be ruled by their hearts more easily. They're just such romantics. My son is a horn dog like his father. And it strikes fear into my heart to hear some of the things he say to ladies that I know are designed simply to get them flat on their backs. I live in fear that he'll get one pregnant, frankly, even if he's about to be 21 and the girls are a little older and wise than they were in high school. He certainly never ceases to try. . . .
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
This thread makes me glad I have a son instead of a daughter because I do think teenaged girls tend to be ruled by their hearts more easily. They're just such romantics. My son is a horn dog like his father. And it strikes fear into my heart to hear some of the things he say to ladies that I know are designed simply to get them flat on their backs. I live in fear that he'll get one pregnant, frankly, even if he's about to be 21 and the girls are a little older and wise than they were in high school. He certainly never ceases to try. . . .
Wouldn't you just love it though, if he called you up crying and said "she said she loved me but after I had sex with her she left" Sure he's your son, but as a woman wouldn't you just find some poetic justice there?
To any dads out there, or if you're expecting or planning on having kids, etc
No doubt, Fengzi, I'd love it if that happened! It'd serve him so right, too. I'm certain he's done that to girls. It would be wonderfully poetic justice.
This year to keep them from hanging their "commitment" hopes on him, he has begun pre-empting the long-term relationship aspirations by simply telling the ladies up front he's not ready for that and that they need to be aware of that going in. So if they hang in there past that, the theory goes, they know what they're in for. I think this has still caused some hurt feelings when things end, but he seems to like the approach nonetheless. I wish he'd just give it a rest and keep it in his pants, frankly.
