Bad parents, a story.

So I was outside skating today when some kid walked up to me. I could tell that the kid was a little off, but thatâ??s not unusual for this area, and even if it was, no big deal. So I get to ask this dude about his life, and heâ??s kind of funny, different and out there, but funny nevertheless. The conversation drags on, and I get back on my board and skate around the same area so I could get some practice in, and still keep the conversation going.

About 30 mins into the kids life story, I ask him will he be excited to go to high school next year and will his parents let him drive, when he just looks at me with puppy dog eyes and says:
Kid: promise you wonâ??t laugh.
Skrappie: sure dude, whatâ??s up?
Kid: Iâ??m too retarded to learn
Skrappie:â?¦.what?

Now I get to asking him what makes him â??retardedâ?� and, this is the shocker of the story, he told me he couldnâ??t see well.

To wrap the story up the kid, outside of having some vision problems, was pretty normal, the fucked up part is he eventually told me that his parents are the ones that told him he was retarded. I kept asking the kid about different things that would generally classify one as developmentally challenged and he didnâ??t have a problem, just verbally abusive parents.

What the fuck is wrong with people. IF you donâ??t want to put effort into putting effective and healthy (mentally, physically, socially) children in the world, then donâ??t have kids.
Iâ??m so angry right now; I really want to talk to this dudeâ??s parents.

If the kid is fine and it is all his folks that is some messed up BS.

A see a lot of parents these days that seem to have given up on their kids, or they just never cared off the bat :(

Hopefully you boosted the kids confidence :jointsmile:

that's bullshit. reminds me of the catholic mom in a recent thread; some people shouldn't breathe, let alone reproduce...

If I were you I would go talk to this kids parents. Find out what the deal is man because that is just unacceptable.

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Originally Posted by Skrappie

So I was outside skating today when some kid walked up to me. I could tell that the kid was a little off, but thatâ??s not unusual for this area, and even if it was, no big deal. So I get to ask this dude about his life, and heâ??s kind of funny, different and out there, but funny nevertheless. The conversation drags on, and I get back on my board and skate around the same area so I could get some practice in, and still keep the conversation going.

About 30 mins into the kids life story, I ask him will he be excited to go to high school next year and will his parents let him drive, when he just looks at me with puppy dog eyes and says:
Kid: promise you wonâ??t laugh.
Skrappie: sure dude, whatâ??s up?
Kid: Iâ??m too retarded to learn
Skrappie:â?¦.what?

Now I get to asking him what makes him â??retardedâ?� and, this is the shocker of the story, he told me he couldnâ??t see well.

To wrap the story up the kid, outside of having some vision problems, was pretty normal, the fucked up part is he eventually told me that his parents are the ones that told him he was retarded. I kept asking the kid about different things that would generally classify one as developmentally challenged and he didnâ??t have a problem, just verbally abusive parents.

What the fuck is wrong with people. IF you donâ??t want to put effort into putting effective and healthy (mentally, physically, socially) children in the world, then donâ??t have kids.
Iâ??m so angry right now; I really want to talk to this dudeâ??s parents.

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while i'm quick to agree with you, you still haven't been the one with him for years.... maybe he is, maybe he really does have problems, maybe he's not telling you the whole story, just mad at his parents and trying for sympathy...

just a thought.. you can't actually know his whole history, just what he tells you...

i still agree tho... if he's telling the absolute truth and whole story.... those parents are horrible.

thats fucked. go find ths kids parents.

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Originally Posted by Skrappie

So I was outside skating today when some kid walked up to me. I could tell that the kid was a little off, but thatâ??s not unusual for this area, and even if it was, no big deal. So I get to ask this dude about his life, and heâ??s kind of funny, different and out there, but funny nevertheless. The conversation drags on, and I get back on my board and skate around the same area so I could get some practice in, and still keep the conversation going.

About 30 mins into the kids life story, I ask him will he be excited to go to high school next year and will his parents let him drive, when he just looks at me with puppy dog eyes and says:
Kid: promise you wonâ??t laugh.
Skrappie: sure dude, whatâ??s up?
Kid: Iâ??m too retarded to learn
Skrappie:â?¦.what?

Now I get to asking him what makes him â??retardedâ?� and, this is the shocker of the story, he told me he couldnâ??t see well.

To wrap the story up the kid, outside of having some vision problems, was pretty normal, the fucked up part is he eventually told me that his parents are the ones that told him he was retarded. I kept asking the kid about different things that would generally classify one as developmentally challenged and he didnâ??t have a problem, just verbally abusive parents.

What the fuck is wrong with people. IF you donâ??t want to put effort into putting effective and healthy (mentally, physically, socially) children in the world, then donâ??t have kids.
Iâ??m so angry right now; I really want to talk to this dudeâ??s parents.

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Unfortunately if you talk to his parents about it they will come down on him harder for speaking about it.

you should be friends with this kid and hangout with him. i'm sure he'd probably like that and you'd probably feel real good because i know that's something that would make me feel good if i knew i was friends with someone that might not have any or has problems at home.

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Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777

Unfortunately if you talk to his parents about it they will come down on him harder for speaking about it.

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That was my main deal, I didn't want someone who enjoys being an asshole to their children on their off time, be an pissed off asshole on my account. I'll just talk to the kid next time i see him and try to figure out more about his situation, although i don't think i have too many options, it won't hurt to listen to him.

I think you just need to be his friend for now...